Iprob with my husband

Tinakader

Well i got up in the middle of the night cuz could not stop coughing and i herd my husbands phone go off so instinct i looked at his cell phone saw he been texting girls talking bout meet him at htel and tellin the got pretty pussy if he can eat it and lay next to them the girls be sending him pics bad ones so i confronted him he said not my religion to cheat he muslim i did not tell him i looked in his phone what should i do confused but he comes stright home to me know that for fact what should i do i dont want to stress baby.

MrsHudson10

I think you should be honest with him. Tell him you weren't snooping but his phone went off late night and you thought it might be important so you checked it. Let him know what you saw and see what he says. Btw, maybe he doesn't know much about his culture but it is not uncommon for muslims to have more than one woman. At least not true muslims. There's a difference between americanized muslims and true muslims (like from Sudan). Anyway, I think you have a right to know what's going on, although whether he's sleeping around or not those texts and pictures are completely unacceptable.

Tinakader

Thank u im talk to him when he get home from work and u right bout a true muslim has one wife also they suppose to protect their privates to thanks advice

mommy2audrey

Wow. No matter what religion ppl still cheat! The saying once a cheater always a cheater is true... you now have a lot of big choices in front of u...

marriedwith_4

I got upset reading it, n its not me! U defiantly need to say something or the though will hunt u! Yes he come home to u every night but is he with u during the day? He's @ work right? ( I was ur husband n a previous relationship ) Talk to him find out the problem not all muslin have 4 wives, I know some! Don't blame urself or let him blame u! Even if he wasn't gonna do it he's still being disrespectful to u

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@tinakader I think I'm kinda n the same situation whr my bf txts othr females nuthn major cuz I havnt really saw nethng tht pushes me over the top he comes straight home sometimes I say something other times I dnt I kno my place n as long as he continues to b good to me I dnt worry about other females cuz its only a phase n were separated rite now but u kno how tht goes...I wouldn't stress unless u really feel the need to...btw my bf n I r also Muslim

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may1mommatobe

I am kinda in the same situation when I first moved in with my bf (sept 2010) he was getting txts and pics from other girls then I said something and he stopped he still talks to "his female friend" who I can't stand. Around christmas I also found a message from one of his freinds where he had sent him a pic of a girl and my bf was talking like he was going to meet her. My bf is also Muslim hahaha (sorry) he works nights and never gets off at the same time so im always wondering (plus his female friend will come to his job and meet him for lunch) I just have some trust issues I dont think he is cheating but who knows I just decided screw it as long as he goes to sleep with me then I dont care anymore.

may1mommatobe

I also quit going through his phone because if you are looking you will find!!!!!!

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@may1mommatobe yupp thts exactly how I feel as long as do wat he gota do for me n r baby

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may1mommatobe

@firsttimemommytobe If I was to find some definite evidence then I would leave him. But some messages in his phone I can get over (trust me I told him how I felt) and since the september issue the problem I have run into is his femal friend he has been knowing for over 3yrs and we have only been in a serious relationship for less than 1 yr I tried to make him choose but then realized he shouldn't have to I still get a lil jealous when he talks to her or wants to go hang out with her, but when I made a problem of it they just started hiding it. I would rather not know nothing about her he has tried to get me to meet her and go with them when they hang out but I know I would only be a Bitch to her and me and him would end up arguing so I figure whatever let him be himself he shouldnt have to change for me. I am happy for me and baby and he is going to be an excellent father to my child he is excited and so much more (he already has a 13yr dtr from another relationship). I am just really hormonal right now to so I think that has something to do with my supicions lol >:-)

Melissa

Ummm that's vulgar right there... you need to confront him about the txts you don't deserve to be direspected like that... you should reevaluate the relationship... a man that talks like that to other women and then lies about it?? I'm sorry your going through this and hope it all turns out ok

momof5

Your a better person than me cause I would have woke him up right then with the phone upside his head. Oh that would not fly with me. I get mad when my husband even says something abt another girl. Yeah not cool. I don't disrespect my man by talking to or about how hot other guys are so I sure the heck won't have my husband disrespecting me. And if I ever found out my husband cheated on me he would not like the out come.

Tinakader

Thank u guys been real helpful and if u look at it all

Tinakader

We all beem through same thing