Alone but not really alone..crying is all I can do

edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Iv lost all hope my babydaddy tells me im depressing to be around.. Ever since I became pregnant im no fun im spoiled and I can never do anything for myself. Mind you I go to school fulltime, work two jobs & take care of out two year old.. I really just need him to be around and to care but he says hes tired and needs his space too but we never spend time with each other only when we fall asleep. I really am tired of talking to him I just cry and cry and cry.. Any advice?

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  • That's rough. Im sorry. Maybe you need to relax. Let go of one of the jobs and have him pick up a second job. Being in school is like having a full time job.. so in.reality you are working 3 jobs while taking care of your child.
    If he wont listen to you, it is quite possible you may need a mediator. Try counseling or try having someone he respects talk to the both of you, not separately, together.
    I know how important time with your significant other is, if the only time you spend together is when you go to bed, before you fall asleep set aside 20 minutes to tell each other about your day. And ALWAYS say "good night i love you". When it comes to you guys having serious conversations especially if it is problematic, you need to make special arangements for that conversation. Do it when you both have a day off work.

    I hope something i said helps!! Its hard work and it definitely takes 100% from each individual to have a working successful relationship. Just give it all you can and pray like its nobodys business.
  • Same here hun, me and my husband got into in today and he told me that im spoiled and cant do anything fir myself so he expect me to work. He told me i was useless to him and that i am nothing to him. It breaks my heart to know that the person who you depend on the most hurts you and lets you down. We have seperated temp now. He went to go stay with his parents n left me home aline... none of this was my fault, he just got mad n left without letting me exolain myself. Si tonight is the night i will cry my eyes iut and prepare to be a single mom. Thank you for rrading, i just need sime comfrint but i dont have that in my life nor my marriage....
  • @sydneyleeann23 thanks I wish it was that easy.. I usually have a lot of faith but right now only my kids keep me going. Its sad I love working because I want him too be proud that im trying to help provide for our family. Anything helps I am guna pray..thank u btw
  • @mammanouchee im sry hun you are married were not. I hope all works out before baby comes!
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