STUCK..DNT KNO WAT TO DO OR WHERE TO TURN?!! :(

mixd_mommymixd_mommy
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
OK! So me & my bf r goin thru a hard time rite now. He got laid off his job but we hav money to keep things goin. I live w l my mom rite now..along w l my aunt & my 20month old son. We all hav our own rooms. My bf & i dnt hav enuff money rite now to get our own place. But my mom is tellin me i cannot live here w l 2 kids..but shes KNOWS i hav nowhere to go. I honestly think shes pullin my leg. I wuz thinkin of askin her if my bf gets anotha job can he move in to help w l da bby til we get situated & move. Wat do yu ladies think of dat idea & my situation? Another thing i wanted to let da new bby sleep my room in a basinest den by da time he or she is 4 or 5 mos..my so will b in a toddler bed & i can giv da new bby his crib..any suggestions on ALL of dis ladies? It would b of alot of help. Thank yu! :)

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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  • mixd_mommymixd_mommy
    @KerrideeRN yea..she told me yesterday shes NOT PLAYIN. i hav no clue wat to do cus now all of a sudden my bf is like "idk y shes so worried bout me gettin a job..my bby is gona b takin care of reguardless" & im like but its nobodys responsibility but mine & yurs to do dat!!! Iam sooo stuck. I barely hav any money rite now. Iam a full time college atudent & my financial aid money only helps so much. My bf has gotten really lazy. & i hav a small fam & nowhere else to turn far az family. & i havent been goin to skool much so idek if ima b gettin much baq from financial aid dis month. Im soo lost & scared. Idk wat to do??!!!
  • Momma2joeMomma2joe
    Maybe he has family you can stay with. I would suggest you get a part time job and show some financial responsibility to the raising of your family. Don't really see any reason your boyfriend isn't working a full time job at the very least.
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  • mamaOf2mamaOf2
    I knw if ur a full time student with a family usually the college helps u with a apt or housing i knw they do were im from
  • mixd_mommymixd_mommy
    @KerrideeRN rite now getting a job is not a gud option bcus i probably am gona b on bed rest soon..my dr even said it. Low income housing?! I kno we hav section8 but da waiting list if full & dey told me it would take 2-4 yrs jus to recieve my voucher. I said da same thing about my bf. I got pregnant from him last yr in may but wounde up having a miscarraige in aug. I wuz due january 17 of dis yr & he still isnt doin anything. Reguardless if we are havin a bby or not..he shouldve been had a job!!! He keeps sayin he wants all dis stuff & do all dees things but all dis is NOT gona come knocking @ da door. Az for my college dats only trade school dat does dat & dats after yu graduate...where im @. & az far az his fam goes...dey r struggling demselves & im only close w l his mom dad & sis. His father is very old skool & doesnt want us even sleeping in da same bed til.we r married..let alone in his house. But my thing is..im already pregnant so not much more can happen. I gotta respect his wishes!!! My bf isnt doing anything to find a job & im almost 4mos...it feels like yesterday i found out i wuz prego. Idk...
  • soon2b3soon2b3
    Honey, PRAY & HAVE FAITH
    God will help u, thats why there are ministries and such. Just make calls ot isnt over til he says it is and when u find a blessing for you and your babies, your bf needs to get it together mam. I would not allow him to reap the benefits of my blessings.
  • mixd_mommymixd_mommy
    @Singlemomofsoontobe3 thank yu soo much! I believe the same. .Iam jus sooo scared! I appreciate yur words. God bless!
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    edited February 2011
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  • mixd_mommymixd_mommy
    @KerrideeRN i will b done w l skool da middle of nxt yr..iam going for my RN degree. I wuz gona ask her but i want my bf to hav a job first so he can give her some money each month. I jus got done talkkng to him..i broke dwn crying & told him exactly how i felt. He said hes been worried bout da same thing! He said hes giba get up early & go job hunting tonorrow & til he finds somethin..but actions speak louder den words! Thank yu for all da advice. Yu ladies gave me hope jus w l words. :). I will keep yu guys informed!! Thanx again
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  • mixd_mommymixd_mommy
    Lol. Yea we do. & thanx!! :)
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