I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Just my two cents: I agree with @navywife and @mrs_shu. As mamas, we fall in love immediately, but some daddies have trouble connecting to something not inside their bodies. My husband (who is absolutely loving and devoted) had a hard time connecting until he saw the ultrasound and started calling Baby by his name. Even if you back off and he doesn't change, though, part of a mom's job is to leave the door open unless the father would be a danger. He might be a jerk, but every baby has a right to know their father. My biological father hurt me growing up, but I learned to accept him and his limitations. It led me to make more careful choices about the father of my baby and made me more appreciative of a great stepdad! :-) Good luck...
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