@momof6lilones, you had your hand fulls! & you're right, you're lucky! That's how guys who love their girls should be though! Good for you (: & ladies, my husband was the same way.. but now I'm 18 weeks and getting bigger (slowly) & he's starting to realize he has to help me.. so he now cooks with me, cleans with me, does laundry with me, grocery shops with me, & even rocks me to sleep at night. Wanna know what my trick was?? I didn't cook, clean, do laundry, go get groceries, and slept all day long (since I couldn't sleep good at night & he never helped me get to sleep.) So if I didn't do it, he had to, or it wouldn't get done. & it worked. Took almost a month for it to work, but he realized I wasn't kidding & needed him. Try it (:
I realized that, another reason why I am better off alone right now don't need another person bringing me down :-)
Wow idk how u do it bt damn ur doing it lol. I just barely started getting my energy back and I finally feel a bit like my old energetic self so I am ready to be active so I can enjoy it while it lasts @sheena0510
When my bc started says things like that I flipped out and told him if is that selfish he can get the heck out and go back to taking careof himself.... now I don't get those kind of comments
It's hard for us to understand ladies but ur never wrong showing intrest and support is all we can suply as well as love and comfort we dont understand everything nor do we try half the time remember were men we do stupid shit but we should get credit for trying (only if there trying) I'm sick of hearing about these guys that dont care. My conclusion if there not willing to sell the xbox for a crib its not worth it waiting to se if they will change lol
Also understand were just as stressed but better at hiding it. So when u go off we do to but again we should have better control and hope ur man shows it
@DaddyslittleKairi yup because most will never change. & its different when they show no support and do nd say stupid things everyday.... a lil effort never hurt anyone.
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& ladies, my husband was the same way.. but now I'm 18 weeks and getting bigger (slowly) & he's starting to realize he has to help me.. so he now cooks with me, cleans with me, does laundry with me, grocery shops with me, & even rocks me to sleep at night. Wanna know what my trick was?? I didn't cook, clean, do laundry, go get groceries, and slept all day long (since I couldn't sleep good at night & he never helped me get to sleep.) So if I didn't do it, he had to, or it wouldn't get done. & it worked. Took almost a month for it to work, but he realized I wasn't kidding & needed him. Try it (:
Wow idk how u do it bt damn ur doing it lol. I just barely started getting my energy back and I finally feel a bit like my old energetic self so I am ready to be active so I can enjoy it while it lasts @sheena0510