Age is a number. It's all on your will power what u believe is what you can do! I was 19, planning on goin back to school,gettin a good job, the car the house. It was jus put on hold till after baby. I became cna gotta job a real good one. Got a car had a place. Decided I have life balanced enough time for school. I'm back in school and pregnant. You can do anything at any age you just will have to learn patience is best in any situation. Life might not happen when it should but wait and all will fall into place. If you need anyone to talk to I've been through it.
your parents know you both are adults and any parent has doubts of there children starting a family. it will take a lil bit but they will warm up and help out. I lived with my parents with my daughter till I saved enough for a place. Your parents won't put you out on the street. Instead they should help you from here
I'm going through the same thing. I'm 19 and pregnant with my first. My now fiance and I are living with his parents. They know we have sex, obvisiously, and they know i quit birth control. The birth control was making me too moody. We both have jobs. My suggestion is to save up some money and get a cheap lil apt for the both of you. Both split the rent and half and come to an agreement. Discuss this with the babys daddy first. And I'm sure if you ever need help the parents might try and help when and if they can. Don't worry so much that's what I did. Have hope for the future that's all. I'm only a lil over 12 weeks and a first time mom. So I got a ways to go. Always think positive
Thanxx everyone.... Both of parents kno now. Im now 5wks4days. My mother is the only person who is upset and not really talking ro me at this moment but she will get over. Its my decision
I'm 19 and my babys father is 18 but we couldn't be happier everyone in my family knows and is excited but there 3 people my boyfriends family that don't know yet and he lives there and I stay sometimes with them and its his granny pawpaw and his dad and we are both nervous to see what they will say but it can't be undone..well it could but I wouldn't dream of it!!! Its the best gift ever! They have no say so over your life your grown and if your happy don't let anyone change that! *proud mommy to be*
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