I dont want to wait!!!!

FirstTymeMom2BFirstTymeMom2B
edited April 2011 in Trying to conceive
I just had a miscarriage a week and two days ago and a D&C 6 days ago so I have a while left till we can even fool around but my Dr wants me to wait 4 months to ttc again!!! 4 months!!! I understand my body needs time to heal and all but It was devastating and I just want to be with child again... This waiting is going to kill me!

Comments

  • mrs_rodneymrs_rodney
    How far along were you? I am so sorry to hear that, but maybe he will allow you a little sooner.
  • audraaudra
    I know how you feel girl, I just miscarried on mar 18th and I wanted to start trying again right away. It was my 2nd mc. My dr told me to wait 6 weeks basically until after my first normal period. Then I just went in today to see an acupuncturist, because I've heard that its good for fertility and she told me that I should wait longer than that she didn't even give me a date she said that mc's are extremely hard on your body so you need to give it time to heal. I'm with you though, I just want to start trying right away, every month that i'm not preggo feels like an eternity! It really sucks, I'm here for ya id you need to talk/vent:)
  • felicia89felicia89
    I started as soon as I felt better :) and I had no complications when I got pregnant again like a few weeks after
  • kalvarezkalvarez
    I miscarried again for the second time March 12th (my sister's birthday), and had a D&C on the 14th (I had a D&C with my first miscarriage too) . My OB is sending me to a maternal and fetal high risk specialist. We opted to have everything sent out this time for pathology and genetic testing. Everything came back perfect, which is great, but I want to know why. I have bloodwork on the 16th and my husband and I have an appointment with the specialist on the 29th. Hopefully there will be something small wrong and easily fixable. I easily get pregnant, but can't seem to keep it. My OB is my cousin and she said to wait 2-3 cycles. I know she would never put me in harms way, so we will wait again. I know the waiting is hard, but it's important. I encourage you to listen to what your told about waiting, you would hate to ut yourself and your potential baby at risk.
  • FirstTymeMom2BFirstTymeMom2B
    @mrs_rodney I was supposed to be18 weeks, but baby stopped growing around 14 weeks so thats prolly when I acually miscarriedi just didnt have any physical signs for four more weeks...
  • FirstTymeMom2BFirstTymeMom2B
    @kalvarez I understand its in myand my potential babys best interest to wait, it just sucks! This was my first pregnancy and I was soooo looking forward.to being a mommy, I couldnt believe it when my worst fear came true and I miscarried. Im def going to listen to what the doc says, I dont think I could mentally handle another mc and going to do anything in my power for it not to happen again! The waiting just sucks!!!!
  • Patientlyw8ting4blessingPatientlyw8ting4blessing
    Awww...Sorry about your loss.. I haven't had a m/c but I am ttc wit my first ...... so I kind of understand.... God bless you
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