Really?!? over the remote control....

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
So I know my hormones are going crazy, but I know that the fighting happening lately is not all my fault! So my BF works in the mornings Monday thru friday and when he gets home he has the lame excuse that he's been working all day so he gets to watch what ever he wants which is 90% sports. And I hate it. Today he was playing ps3 with my brothers all morning and when he finished I was in the middle of watching a show and he said he didn't want to see that stupid show. That it was HIS weekend off and he wanted to see something he liked, so to avoid a fight I gave him the damn controller. He watched sports and then left to my brothers room again so I go and watch another show and he comes back and says how I get to enjoy my life and he doesn't. How he's so miserable bc I don't let him live his life and how he wishes he could have his old life back! I was like wtf!?! Really here's the controller! I started to cry bc what he said was very hurtful and all for nothing and he still says "there you go crying again! The only damn thing you do right!" :-(( I feel so hurt. I refuse to go to bed with him. So I'm sleeping on the floor with all lf our pillows!

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  • I would of physically punched him! My partners not like that but I get the part where its like he doesn't care if I'm crying coz I'm hurt. Oh hunny you do need to go find somewhere better to sleep coz on the floor us not good. :( *hugs*
  • I'm sorry honey :( and I know how that goes... I went through that with my ex.... he just sounds immature and he is only thinking of himself. I mean you stay home and take care of the house right? That's work... and he has to know your hormonal, emotional and sensitive. It doesn't sound like he thinks of your feelings... I'm sorry your going through that...
  • Make him sleep on the floor!! When my husband is rude when i cry...i give him the silent treatment alllllllll day till hes apologizes..i know not very grow up but you know what i know it makes him think about what he said! And he usually brings me something ..like chocolate
  • You shoud find somewhere else to sleep :-/ tell him the floor isnt suitable for a pregly and take bed. It sounds like hes feeling like his life is chaning and its upsetting him. Sometimes even moms feel like a baby took their "life" away. He really shouldnt act like that though, even if hes been working and whatnot :-/ its just not right. Hope things get better. <3
  • Oh no no no. My husband knows better than that i would've told him to get his s**t and get back to his life. Im sorry hun i hope things get better.
  • What an insensitive prick! I hope he grows up and realizes you are a team and it not all effing about him...
  • What a dick. I'm sorry mama.
  • Thanks ladies!
    @MummyNumber3
    @billysgirly
    @Beatrice1436
    @momtobe19
    @angelsmommy
    @jellybelly1015
    @Mama2JaydeAndNick


    I cried myself to sleep with our son... but I don't know what to do. We never have problems, we've always had thee best relationship and when we moved from our own house to a bigger house with two of my brothers everything changed =/ I hope things go back to the way they used to be soon, cause I don't think I can take his shit any longer!
  • That sucks. Maybe he's overwhelmed bc of how many kids there are? :/

    He's completely wrong for talking to you like that though. There's no excuse for that type of behavior. You really should sit him down and talk. Try not to cry. Be strong. Men tune out when they see tears.
  • I hope things get better and you both can talk it out. <3
  • Agree w booface, really hope he can do atleast that, a conversation about all of this. Good luck, I'll be thinking about you!!!
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