Confused and need some one to talk to

xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
Im 14weeks and 1 day pregnant and when I told my boyfriend he was happy. He has 2 other children as do I but it seems the last couple of weeks he's been not the same to me. Seems he wants to agrue and try to say things to piss me off but mainly whats got me so confused and hurt is hes been texting his ex wife at like 7 in the morning! I dont know what to think or do except cry!!!

Comments

  • MsKrystalMsKrystal
    Have you tried talking to him in between arguments and telling him how you feel?
  • xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
    Yes I have and its always im taking my mood swings out on him or he says he texted his ex wife cause of his boys. Which I dont have a problem with him seeing his boys but I do have a problem with him talking to the ex when his son has a cell phone. I real
  • xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
    I realy just dont know what to do at times I wana go into a shelter with my kids and not tell him just to see if he cares like he says he does:'(
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    Remember parents still need to talk to eachother about the children even with child not present...
  • xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
    Oh I get that I have 2 other kids and I kinda talk to my bd but ive taken his phone and read the txt frm her deff wasnt bout his boys deff was her wanting to have sex with him. Guess I shouldve put in there that after that text he left to go up there at 715 this m
  • xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
    Morning*
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    Well only u can deciede whats best for u n baby... Try not to stress too much. good luck!
  • xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
    Thank you. Mayb im just scared im going to be raising another child by myself
  • momamarmomamar
    what was his response to her advances?
  • MsKrystalMsKrystal
    @momamar I was just going to ask that
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    Dont b scared I did it forever! To b honest 6 years with one bd who did the things ur talkin anout was just as hard if not harder thrn being a single mother.. .
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    *about
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    I'm sure your a fantastic mum to your children and although you don't wanna do it alone you know you can and it would be his loss...stay strong xx
  • chelsichelsi
    I'm not sure how to put this. But many its better that u know now.
    I was married for 16 years. I got 3 amazing daughters out of it. But I let things like ur situation go, because he was real good at convincing me he was faithful. 10 or more women later I maid him leave. (With my best friend. Who turned out to be a porn star... go figure.). I just wish my eyes would have opened sooner. Because in the end my girls were the ones hurt the most.
  • chelsichelsi
    I didn't think anyone would want me because I had 3 kids. But I found( he found me:) LOL. The most amazing man whom is the father of this baby.
    I wish you love and luck. Things sometimes just seem to hard to handle. Just remember you are a strong woman and don't let no man get u down. All that truly matters is your children and you. Keep ur head up.
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    @chelsi did the same thing. But only for 6 years cant imagine 16! Mr. right is out there, I also finally found him and it feels so good. Such a high from the previous bd,s...
  • ashleyr0512ashleyr0512
    What a jackass. Cut off his balls
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    I kno every situation is diff but my bf has very minimal contact with his ex even regarding his son. he texts her wednesday or friday of the week we pick him up. and then the sunday we need to take him home. he lets me read all his texts between them and will usually have me text off his phone. this is the first time ive really ever had to deal with a ex because of a child so i no how diff it can be but i hope everything works out for you and ur little ones good luck mommy
  • xxshawtyxxxxshawtyxx
    Thanks every one...my daughtet and I moved back home with my mom and step dad. Were only here till I have the baby and then im going into a shelter with the kids... As for me and him..we have alot to wrk out but mainly he needs to choice her or me bottom line...
  • BeardreamsBeardreams
    Wow what a low life piece of scum. I agree whole heartedly with @ashleyr0512 chop off his manhood, make him eat it and then move on. I have no use or patience for men like that
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