What a dumb &%*#!

elle_babyelle_baby
edited February 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
So I was just explaining to my bd how tired I get, like how even when I just do my hair I get soooooo tired. Then I gave him examples of how this pregnancy makes us pregnant girls feel and you will not guess what he said! He said, "maybe cuz you don't work or do anything you get tired". (I recently quit my job btw) Then I told him "That is the most ignorant response I have heard and maybe you should try being pregnant to see how it makes you feel" then he said "I probably will". What a douche bag omg I want to just YELL AT HIM too bad u can't smack someone through text!

Am I getting matter over nothing? I might be bt idk just so mad. Like they think its soo easy for us! Good thing I was still not planning on taking that jerk back!
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  • elle_babyelle_baby
    *mad not matter.
  • Tlg81Tlg81
    Wow! Men do not watch there comments at all, its almost like they are asking for a attack of the hormones.
  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    I understand where yur coming from. I Don't work either, I get to tired to Do laundry or dishes! So wen he comes home its not done, and he says did yu do anything today. I said no cuz my back hurts and I Get tired, he said to me. Girl yur pregnant not paralyzed! I WAs Like mother f****r. Lol I cried then He apologized to me! Said he Was frustrated!! Bull. Yur not alone girl.
  • Lynn25Lynn25
    Oh my r u sure ur bd and mine not related..... Mine says the same crap to me like its my damn fault Im not working... Ughhhhhhhh
  • ashesashes
    No you have right to get mad, in my opinion anyway. Its like when I try to say how tired I am, he always has to one up me, like saying "you're tired? I just worked for 6 hours." Psh. You're tired? I'm growing another human being inside me. Hmm.
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    @cgm1113 They are seriously RETARDED and lack so much screws in their heads. Can't they just get a damn book or read something related to pregnancy to get a better understanding of how we feel especially if they think we are being so dramatic!

    @Lynn25 I think all douche bags are related lol. How can they think that having a baby developing in you not get you tired or even sick in that matter! If they were in our shoes most wouldn't even last.
  • sariemama3sariemama3
    I wish they could feel it. I just lost my job too n I can't seem to do anything outside my bedroom without getting exhausted. We're at the laundromat now n loading 1 washer made me feel like crap. 1 frickin washer! Lol
  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    @elle_baby Yeahh ima go out and buy him one. LOl he Would need to read it To understand!! But now that I'm showing and getting bigger he is realising it.. finally!! (;
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    edited February 2011
    @ashes Even by saying that they still won't understand we need to learn how to speak their language. lol they also think its a race! Like they want all the attention. Ugh feel the same way, I admire the girls that work or go to school and are pregnant because that takes so much work and energy. Have u also tried dancing while pregnant? Haha within ten min it makes u feel like u ran a marathon! @sariemama3
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    u know what. I love reading posts like these. it shows me exactly what not to do or say to my gf (:
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    @cgm1113 Lol yeah most won't get it until you show a lot or probably never : (

    @FirstTimeDaddy omg why can't our bd's at least try to understand us like you. Idk how to open up this morons eyes lol.
  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    @elle_baby Yeahh I know! How far along are yu? I'm 12 Weeks 1 day!
  • happy2bhappy2b
    @ashes that's an awesome response I'm so using that next time he complains he works to many hrs! Lol thay great
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    @cgm1113 I am 15 weeks and 3 days : ) ahh when I was 12 weeks I still had horrible morning sickness hated it lol. Hopefully that's not you right now. ~O)
  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    @elle_baby after I found out I WAs pregnant, I WAs constantly eating, then suddenly I lose my appetite. From like 8 weeks to 11 I Would only eat once a day! I could go hours without eating. I've never thrown up, well just once but not to bad! And just like 4 days ago I got my appetite back. NOw I'm always eating. Lol ;) I'm Glad I Didn't put up wit nausea.
  • bummy87bummy87
    Oh my husband is the same I just ignore hm.n tell him 2 shove it sideways he just gets on his high horse sometimes but he helpd when he can c I'm obviously having a hard time
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    edited February 2011
    @cgm1113 Oh you are sosooooo lucky!! My tummy kept telling me I was hungry bt I couldn't eat anything! You would go so long without eating lol. The worst is getting the flu while pregnant I think ohman that's horrible. Is this ur first pregnancy?
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    @elle_baby thanx. (:
  • kritten_octoberbbykritten_octoberbby
    When my husband wants sex he wont leave me alone. Forget how i feel
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    like right now. havent gotten any in like a week. I try. I make the attempt. but she is like I'm really tired. . so. . . I just let it go. lol.
  • SandranickSandranick
    Augh! Some men just wanna get kicked in the mouth...best time to get back at him is when ur giving birth just kick him reaaallly hard..lol! Than he'll understand atleast a bit of the pain
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    I dont wanda get kicked in the mouth. I wanna have sex. lol knowin my gf she is probably gonna dig her nails in my hand.
  • BeardreamsBeardreams
    Everything posted I have been dealing with! Made me laugh so hard to read some things. At least im not the only one suffering. Ill have to keep the kick during labour idea in mind LOL.
  • CANT_WAIT93CANT_WAIT93
    dont trip girl I have this same stupid figth with my baby daddy he said I sleep to much but shyt I can't sleep at nite so I sleep in the morning I dont trip I still sleep my 12 hours lol
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    They will just never understand! Lol jealous u sleep good! I am lucky if I even sleep 4 hrs a day. Sometimes I don't even sleep at all : /
  • treaclextreaclex
    Haha. Men can be so insensitive. I had plans to run a half marathon in 2 weeks time until I found out I was expecting. Had been forcing myself to run between 5 and 7 miles despite being shattered although at the time I didn't know and felt lazy for being tired. Now I can only manage an hour of gentle exercise or swimming. The other half tries to drag me to the gym more often and was disappointed when I said I was pulling out of the race. Could've screamed. They just don't understand how tiring it is!
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    Mine is da same way girl they will never understand the things we go through.
  • momof6lilonesmomof6lilones
    Man, after reading this I have realized how lucky I am. My bd works 40+ hours a week and I stay at home with the kids. I had been working a pt job over night and teaching zumba, hip-hop and chair dance classes. Till one night I just broke down. I felt horrible that I couldn't keep up with everything the cleaning, the laundry, cooking, all 6 kids., I was so tired. He told me to quit it all. I am now just a sahm and lovin it. He comes home from helps with dinner and will do the dishes helps clean up and with all the kids. I am so lucky.! :X
  • ashesashes
    Idk what happened, but my bf finally started understanding, though its only little by little. I stopped even trying to say anything, but now he says things like...."I had such a long tiring day at work! But I'm sure you feel worse, how are you feeling today?"
    I think maybe because lately I've been progressively getting sicker, now I'm pale and eyes are sunken in...plus everything makes me sick. Now that he sees it he understands...
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I just tell my hubby to shut up cuz he's the one who did this to me :)
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