Advice please
I could use your help on this matter because I am torn and cannot decide what I should do. My mother-in-law has a bunch of old clothes from when her kids were young; as well as, some items that her father made for her that she played with as a child and than passed along for her children to play with. She has recently given me the items that her father made for her (a wood highchair and bassinet she can use for her dolls). My Husband does not want them and I really don't think I want them either. We do not have an attic or a basement. Our house is a decent size, but we do not have room to store items like this until she is old enough to play with them. I do not want to hurt her feelings and get rid of them, but at the same time I do not want to feel forced to keep them when we did not ask for them. She has also given me some clothes that I also feel that I have to keep that my daughter can no longer wear. These items do not have the same sentimental value to my Husband and I as they do to her. I could always make the room for the stuff, but she is constantly giving me things and I do not know how to ask her to stop or at least wait until my daughter is old enough to play with the items. She also gave me a bunch of clothes for my son who is due in December that cannot be worn until he is at least 8 years old. What would you ladies do?
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@jules Thank you. I agree. I think it would be best for him to talk to her. I did try, but she may not mind as much hearing it from him. I like the way you worded it. It makes it sound like he appreciates the items that way she will not get offended.
@sehra4177 I am to that point. I don't think I could do it though. I wish she would send the items to my sister-in-law, but she has a 9 year old son, so the items are not appropriate for him.
@mathair I tried telling her we do not have the space, but she seemed so offended and heartbroken, so I will have my Husband talk to her. We are supposed to be going over there this week. I will have him bring it up than. I like the way you worded that and honestly I think it would be best for the items to be over there. I know she would enjoy seeing my daughter play with them more than I would since they are special to her.