i have an embarressing question TMI

coltensmammacoltensmamma
edited October 2012 in Pregnant
So I am usually really shy and this is not something I would usually ever speak of, and I hope I'm not crossing a line here. This is the only place I feel safe asking this lol
So my sex drive in general is really low, and even worse while pregnant. I am very conservative and not very adventurous in the bedroom lol I feel terrible for my hubby and have been making a point to try harder. Well today he came home with a vibrator...again never used one lol I tried to make him happy and now I'm internally having a heart attack. He used it internally and my head is telling me I'm such an idiot and there is no way those vibration can be healthy to a growing fetus..especially its brain. Someone please tell me their opinions before I worry myself to death! Again I'm sorry for the TMI :)

Comments

  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    Lol a vibrater wont hurt baby.. Enjoy!! I suggest the bullet! Its a wonderful thing
  • second_time_mommy7second_time_mommy7
    I see no problem with it b.o.b. is my bff and my kids turned out fine :)
  • coltensmammacoltensmamma
    so scary tho lol a lot of what I've read says externally no prob, but it's wishy washy about internally...so say safe and some say no way...so confused!!
  • ripKaydenceripKaydence
    Hahahahha i love this thread. Sorry to laugh at your expense but a vibrator is perfectly fine!!!
  • coltensmammacoltensmamma
    @ripKaydence....DON'T LAUGH AT ME!! LOL JK. I think I'm going to give my husband a heart attack lol I've freaked him out a little lol. I know it should be fine..but when I visualized what that poor baby must be feeling(I'm a mess I know lol) I feel bad. I cannot believe I'm going to equate it to this, but here it goes lol its like shaken baby syndrome to a poor fetus... It freaks me out lol
  • angela1990angela1990
    Haha your so cute!!! I thought the same thing but if it helps at all there are some studies that say it could benefit from your body tightening and loosening if that makes senese. Good Luck Lovely!
  • ripKaydenceripKaydence
    Hahahahahahhaha!!!!! How far are you?? And honestly i think babies like the vibrations. I have a system in my car and when i was pregnant with my daughter it always got her to move around while it thumped against the seat!!
  • ripKaydenceripKaydence
    And believe me.this is not tmi!! We used to have a group called the beaver boogers hahahah
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    If it did hurt baby then my kids would have been screwed... my sex drive went crazy when I was pregnant lol... I think as long as it doesn't hurt or feel physically uncomfortable then your fine.
    @ripkaydence they came down hard on sex talk a while ago... I had threads closed and was banned because of it lol
  • sehra4177sehra4177
    It's def not a problem .. I had no sex drive either or was just too tired to bc I have two other kids one is or was two and no energy at all after chasing him so I used mine quite a bit...he is ok. They are very protected in there.
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