Maybe a sign???

edited November 2012 in Pregnant
I don't know if any of you remember me from early 2011 that i joined and stuck around for 4 months. I was pregnant with my first and had surgery at 17 weeks and ended up losing my babygirl Natalia on May 14, 2011.
I am now pregnant again, and i am due on May 14, 2013. I wonder, is it some kind of sign? Is my babygirl ready for a little brother or sister? Being pregnant after a loss is so hard. Its hard for me to stay positive, but i know i owe it to my Natalia and this baby on the way. Im excited but scared, and i just wanted to know if any of you ladies have had any similar feelings and how did you deal with them...

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  • I had a miscarriage last may the 26th and my lil man was due june 6th. I thought for sure he would come on the anniversary. I definitely think it's a sign! ;) your angel is watching her sibling!
  • Oh wow, definitely think that's a sign :)
  • I know, it was a complete shocker for me! At first, we werent so sure about the due date of this baby because he/she was measuring a week behind from what we thought according to my last menstrual cycle. But the doctor has said that May 14, 2013 :)
    I guess we will wait and see. The thing that is weird to me is that, im starting to show now and im only 12 weeks, but with Natalia i never showed and i had her at 17 weeks. But they do say that every pregnancy is different.
  • I remember you!!. I joined March 2011. Im so sorry for your babygirl, but definitely this is a good sign and she is watching over you and baby brother/sister. Congrats btw :)
  • I really find that strange and could mean something... But you also gotta take into consideration that due dates aren't always accurate... I had my girl almost weeks after my due date...
  • Thanks @novmom2be :)
    @mylove2 i know due dates aren't always accurate. to be honest, i doubt i'll make it all the way to my due date. im not sure why, but i have a feeling i might deliver early May. Either way, i feel like this is a sign from my baby Natalia. I think she wants me to enjoy my pregnancy, to not be so scared.. as if she were this baby's guardian angel.
  • @perly I'm sure it's a scary thing. But stay positive as your doing :). Plenty of sticky baby dust to you. Can't wait to hear all about your pregnancy updates ;)
  • That's awesome! Congrats and best of luck!!
  • I had my first loss in September and when I became pregnant again, I was due in September. I lost that one in January and my daughter was born in January. At no time did we prevent pregnancy, so it was pure luck that we became pregnant when we did.
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