help please!! :(

mommy_relmommy_rel
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
My husband wants a divorce but I refuse until the baby is here..I'm so upset..I have to move across country (military) I Havnt rly eaten..I'm throwing up like crazy..n baby hasn't made me throw up since Feb 23rd..ugh Idk wat to do or how to get better..anyone been in this situation b4?? All I do is cry..:'(

Comments

  • excitedmommaexcitedmomma
    Is your baby his? If it is its so cruel of him to put you through this now.its such horrible timing.I have never been in your situation but I'm sure you'll pull through it.good luck!
  • lucky7lucky7
    Im sooooo sry.I was just in ur situation a couple wks ago. I made a post to about it and got alot of helpful support that made me feel better.we worked things out to a point but I still feel a lil tension.im preg wit 5th baby and I told him same thing I can't go through this when preg it hurts too much.do u have any family or friends u can talk to.I got my mom and 1friend to talk to but my friend made me more upset my mom helped though
  • coolbabybeanscoolbabybeans
    I'm so sorry, guys suck sometimes. They don't even get it try to just move on. I know its easier said than done. Try to distance yourself emotionally and think of all the great things that come with being a mommy and all the fun stuff there is to look forward to with a new relationship. I hope u feel better and remember, the baby feels what u feel so keep ur chin up hun
  • lucky7lucky7
    I know its hard to eat when ur so upset but plz drink water stay hydrated I went to hospital bc I got so dehydrated when I couldn't stop crying and I was throwing up and couldn't stop but had nothing to throw up bc I couldn't eat it was horrible and a vicious cycle. Plz drink and maybe take a shower n try to relax for a min give urself a break from crying
  • mommy_relmommy_rel
    Ya I Havnt eaten n 2 days n cnt keep even water down. At ER now..
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    Remember that he's not worth your babys health! I do not understand what goes on in some men's head that make them so heartless. But I know the more you try to cling onto what's left, the more it pushes him away. You never know what the future holds, but always have a back up plan. Ask your parents, if push comes to shove, is it ok to come back til you figure things out. Your baby will need somewhere they are use to. Maybe your husband is getting cold feet. He might be scared to grow up and worry about someone other then himself. Talk to him and ask why is he feeling that divorce is the answer. Sorry you're going through this. Good luck.
  • mommy_relmommy_rel
    Well I'm not allowed to eat food till tomorrow, Jus luquids today. Babys doin good, 157bpm and measuring a day bigger than I am :) n thanks a lot for all the support ladies..its greatly appreciated.
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