Hey guys!!! I'm back, and baby #2 is on its way! I'm 8 weeks, and my beautiful baby girl is 15.5 months old.. I'm having a hard time thinking of how to tell my family. Mom and dad aren't going to be happy. At all.
Congrats on #2. As far as the parents. Just sit down with them. I can be positive if i were to find out i was preg me, my husband and all our parents would be upset. Good luck with telling them.
They would be upset because the timing just isn't the best, and my relationship has been somewhat rocky lately. They will later be excited and they will definitely love this baby. But it's just going to be difficult.
So many times we worry about the opinions if others. I feel if they do not pay your bills or care for your child then its not their place to voice any opinion only support. Btw CONGRATULATIONS! My son is almost 16 months and I'm 10/3 wks I knew my family would have their opinions but Oh well
Word! I totally agree with soon2b3! My mother has never been happy with me becoming pregnant with any 4 of my children. She doesn't support me our my children, and doesn't care for them ever since we live 2 days away from her. I just don't give a shit what anyone has to say.. It's my life. Either support me or shut the heck up with your negativity. Congratulations to you and your little family! Children show us the true meaning of life!
Honestly, i just came out and said it. I knew my family was going to say what they thought but i said "Im sharing important and joyful news with you, so you can either be happy for me or you can come around when you want to start being happy for me" My mom wanted me to wait, i don't know for what but that's what she wanted and it upset her to know that i didn't. But i didn't give her any other choice.
My mom thought I was lying and my dad cried but dad was very happy my boss though was very angry for last six months so I finally got in her face last week and she has been better towards me since but will see, I know people we not happy considering my lo was only 14 months at time
That's better than what I did the second and fourth time for me. When I got pregnant the second time, my only lo was 3 months old.. Lol. Then this time when I got pregnant, my youngest was 5 months old. Fuck it dude, live you're life the way you want to... Not based on what others think. Oh, sorry about the language guys!
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Btw CONGRATULATIONS! My son is almost 16 months and I'm 10/3 wks I knew my family would have their opinions but Oh well
My mom wanted me to wait, i don't know for what but that's what she wanted and it upset her to know that i didn't. But i didn't give her any other choice.