my first baby..

linabbylinabby
edited March 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
Hi! My name is lina and this is my first pregnancy and im almost 35 weeks. The father of my child is not here, and im so afraid of raising my baby alone. I am 20 years old and am due 5 days before my 21st birthday which happens to be easter sunday. Me and his father talk, but its mostly arguments over little things. I want him to be a part of his son's life but i don't think its fair for him to leave me alone. Its a very confusing situation and i just want what's best for my baby. Im thinking about just accepting the fact that he wont be here and move on but i feel like i wouldn't have tried hard enough for my son :/ anyway im excited about my baby and hope to go into labor sometime early next month!

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  • sm0ochez14sm0ochez14
    I have a similar situation. The father and I get along, but we're not together anymore. Things just arent working out. He goes to most of my appts w me, but i feel like hes not there for the emotional or fun parts of the pregnancy. Hopefully when he sees his son, things will change. I've heard that a baby can change a man who doesn't act right, so hopefully they will or atleast start to care some more. Good luck!
  • BundleOfJoyBundleOfJoy
    Well .. I think that if he doesn't act like he wants to be apart of it, don't beg him. Tell him just like you told us that you would like for him to share this blessing with you, he doesn't know how much he missed already. What type of guy is he ? How long have You known him
  • linabbylinabby
    We have been together just under a year. When we got pregnant we had only been together a few months but i've known him for awhile. I know alot of things are going on in his life right now but we deserve to be his number one priority.
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