@starrxoxo ok let's play dumb when in fact your "general statement" was referring to the only one that that has a different opinion on here, MINE...funny that I didn't expect anything else from you either than jumping in to jump down MY throat, only difference in me is that I'm not afraid to jump in yours right back...but since you "are done" with our conversation, in other words have nothing else to say, then I'm sure you won't respond to this.
@excitedforoctober Hmm actually there were other people that felt like you. Maybe not to your extreme, but IN GENERAL. And sorry to burst your bubble but I don't have some personal vendetta against you. Yes, we are on two different planets it seems, but I only commented because I was slightly appalled at what you AND others said in regards to your duties as parents. But if you think I'm out to get you you're dead wrong and a little full of yourself. Side note, why are you quoting something I didn't even say? And my lack of a response if I so choose to go that route has nothing to do with fear but nice try.
@starrxoxo just thought you might be wanting to do something more productive like cooking a 3 course meal and cleaning up before hubby gets home. Just a CRAZY idea.
@starrxoxo9 I completely agree with your view, that's how I am. I have gotten a little frustrated with hubby lately, but this helps me get back on track.
Wow I didn't ever think my depression thread would be an argument. Can't we all agree to disagree. YES its hard as fu*k being a sahm for some of us. All babies are different and if you have an unclingy baby that's great for you but it really is hard taking care of the baby, cleaning the house, cooking dinner, and taking care of your husband all in one day and waking up to do the same thing all over again next day. But YES its also hard to work 8-12 hour shifts DEPENDING ON ON YOUR JOB. Lets just agree to disagree.
Sorry I guess I just don't understand where you're coming from. I work 4 days a week and do all the things a sahm does. It's not difficult to me but I'd love to be able to be home all the time.
@starrxoxo9 I actually agree with you for a change.lol. I choise to stay home with my son and could have a job if I wanted, infact I technically do. But I/we feel that our son needed to bond with one of us not spend half of his time at a daycare. Because we choose to foit this way I do as much as I can, my husband washes sippy cups snd helps in the kitchen on weekends and puts his clothes away.
This is my belief and not really open to debate. For anyone who would like to debate or argue about it.
I agree with some ladies. My hubby works 12hrs shifts 6-7 days a week, so i stay home and do the house work. I don't ask him to help me, but he does help with small things here and there. I think it all depends on how your relationship is and what works for you. My husband says "as long as my clothes is washed and i have something to eat, Im good." When i was working, we would both do chores especially because our schedules were on completely opposite times of the day. I worked days he works nights. So i would clean and wash at night and cook something in the morning for him before work, he would pick up around the house and maybe fold some clothes. We did it like that because that's how it worked for us. Im a little old fashioned, so i like to have everything done for him when gets home. I feel like that's the least i could do because he works his ass off for me, but again, he does help when i need it.
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This is my belief and not really open to debate. For anyone who would like to debate or argue about it.
I think it all depends on how your relationship is and what works for you. My husband says "as long as my clothes is washed and i have something to eat, Im good."
When i was working, we would both do chores especially because our schedules were on completely opposite times of the day. I worked days he works nights. So i would clean and wash at night and cook something in the morning for him before work, he would pick up around the house and maybe fold some clothes. We did it like that because that's how it worked for us.
Im a little old fashioned, so i like to have everything done for him when gets home. I feel like that's the least i could do because he works his ass off for me, but again, he does help when i need it.