soooooo you want to do zumba?

CANT_WAIT93CANT_WAIT93
edited January 2013 in Not Pregnancy Related - NPR
So this morming my husband tells me that we should do zumba together. That we can diet together n everything! N I was like H YEA! I would lOVE TO!! We plan on buying it on the xbox.
But im sitting here thinking y all of sudden do u want to?....
Yesterday I was telling him in the morning that I felt huge! That I have enough of a double cheen to make another face! And this is something I always find my self telling him. For the same reason that I want him to tell me that!
But what has me all tipsy is he like to talk to his older brother a lot! N what if he is over there talking to him n yhats y he came out with this wonderful idea?! U know!

Comments

  • perlyperly
    Maybe he just wants you to stop feeling like that so he figured you could do something together so you can see that he supports you??? Wild guess.
    But don't make any assumptions. It could start an unnecessary fight. If you like the idea, go along with it. I know when i lost weight, my self confidence and self-esteem shot through the roof! My sex drive did too lol.
  • firsttimemomfirsttimemom
    Maybe you maybe you're not. I would think the worst. which is really bad. but statistics show guys who out of know where want to buy new undies, change the way they look all that stuff, are most likely wanting/are/want to cheat. ugh i really suck at this. I really hope i haven't given you any bad thoughts. You should ask him why all of the sudden he wants this change, if you've been wanting both of you to change.
  • firsttimemomfirsttimemom
    @perly I just gave her bad ideas then:( sorry.
  • perlyperly
    @firsttimemom its ok lol. Well she did say that he suggested they both tried it. And zumba is something a woman would do, so if he's trying to do something she would seem interested in its probably because he wants to support her in weight loss.
    I would've thought the same you did if he were interested in going to the gym by himself, or something like that. But since this came up after a talk they had and he suggested something more girly, Im thinking he probably wants to do something fun with her. Just my opinion. They have 2 babies so i'd hate to think he has bad intentions.
  • CANT_WAIT93CANT_WAIT93
    Yea you are right @perly!!
    Idk I guess it just got me cause I know im fat n he was always the one that said idc I love u your perfect!
    And now that he told me or asked it kinda got to me u know.. maybe he doesn't see me so perfect anymore.
    @firsttimemom I would worry If that was the case but he has only gone like twice to the gym us being together for 3 years. N if he buys new clothes its with us.....but yea im whole deal is what if he doesn't love me the way I am anymore u know.
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    I think if you've been complaining about it to him that you're uncomfortable with how you look, he's just trying to make you happy. When I first read this post, I thought it was very sweet. I would love if my boyfriend wanted to do a fun class like that with me!
  • CANT_WAIT93CANT_WAIT93
    Yea I know. I could be depressing sometimes. :(
    Yea he can be a sweetheart but sometimes I can take it the wrong way @natashalynn
  • perlyperly
    @cant_wait93 my hubby is the same way. You've seen my pictures on Facebook, my belly is pretty big for 5 months. Lately i've been feeling a little down because i have to buy shirts that cover my belly and so on, but my hubby tells me he loves me just the way i look. There is not a day that doesnt go by when he tells me how sexy i look to him, and how he loves me and just all those sweet things. I feel enormous, but he finds me pretty even during pregnancy.
    Its very weird, but there are men that love their wives no matter how they look... That's the kind of husbands we have ;)
  • CANT_WAIT93CANT_WAIT93
    I know. But I guess cause like I see my self like horror I feel that he sees me the same way!
    ....
    He just got me the Zumba...any idea how to start it off? @perly
  • perlyperly
    @cant_wait93 i've done zumba, but not on the xbox. The class was offered at my job, so i went during the summer.
  • julesjules
    I think his just trying to keep you happy personally. However u totally get the other thoughts that are going through your head I'm the same way but it always end bad. I remember my biological mom used to tell me all the time since I asked her questions about everything lol, that the more you know the sooner you die. And it didn't hit me until I was an adult and had to have reality with out her. But now I understand what it really means. That sometimes it's ok not knowing everything bc sometimes what could have been nice and a positive thing due to our curiously turns into negative experience. And the more of those we have we tend to get kinda sad and depressed and we don't literally die but our happy spirit does. Plus think about it this way so what if they know and maybe it wasn't his idea. This can turn into something amazing. You two will not only have fun, get healthier, it is another chance to bond. Which now days with all the stress of life that separated us all its great to take a chance to reconnect!
  • perlyperly
    ^^^she has a VERY good point :)
  • YNVTishYNVTish
    @CANT_WAIT93 ... Girl yes stop over thinking.. LOL

    That's awesome that all you had to mention you need to diet and your husband jumps up and creates this entire eating and workout plan.

    Sounds like you have a winner there. LOL
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    Before I got pregnant my bf told me he would do Insanity with me, he knew all I needed was the extra push and motivation even though he has a great body and doesn't need to do that type of workout, I thought it was very thoughtful of him.
  • CANT_WAIT93CANT_WAIT93
    @jules you soo right!.
    I think what gets me thinking lile this is the fact of my parents pass... I saw so much growing up n now that I back track I understand what I use to see ass normal. I have the though that my mom put in my mind a while back when her n my dad where separating. "When the water is calm on top, there is a sink hole in the bottom.". But she said it in Spanish so it sounded better. Lol. But yea. Idk what I want to say is that I can't ever lok on the bright side. I know depressing right? I feel that everything has to have a catch u know.

    @YNVTish yea I know he is. But sometimes I feel that he is to good to be true...
  • julesjules
    I do that all the time but it's two of the same things that like trigger those thoughts in me and is super hard to control. But like I was saying I try to remember what my mom used to say and helps me to at last calm down enough to think about it. Although I still have times I just can't help but let it take over. But I think now that your aware that's the first thing and I really think it well improve. Give yourself a chance :)
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