i wanted this and now i dont

edited January 2011 in Pregnant
I'm 28 and havein a baby. I didn't plan this at all. At first I was happy I have a good man baby on the way a diamond ring and buying a new house. Sounds good? Then y do I hate my life? I don't want a baby now a ring or anything really. Just feel so depressed. I don't even want the ring. Its not what I wanted. I know drepression can happen when ur pregnant and I try to cheer myself up but nothing works. I just want to run away. What can I do to change this?

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  • I really dnt have N answer for u but maybe you should ask Ur doctor and see if they can help
  • My best advice is to see a therapist. They will be totally unbiased and hopefully help you uncover what's going on. I wish you the best and all the happiness in the world! Good luck hun!! Xoxo
  • I felt like that at first but mine is cause I'm young but wen I start to feel down and overwhelmed I just think of holding my son in my hands and his smile and I feel better I think once everything falls into place u will be more calm and happy about all your amazing gifts in life good luck and congrates
  • Absolutely; talk to your doc ASAP... becoming a mother is a huge, scary change, but it is SOOOO worth it! I can't tell you how thankful I am for my daughter and my soon-to-be baby- my life is worlds better than it ever was before my family came along!...
    I hope you feel better soon!
  • Try to take a step back from everything once in a while. If you don't smile at all during the day then there's other possibilities. It's your life. There's no reason to not absolutely love it. If you're unhappy then do something to make you happy.
  • edited January 2011
    I guess that's what I need to do. Somethings gotta give. Thank u everyone, by just responding and so fast has already helped. Thanks!
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  • Thanks mama_kat
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  • Sweetie you do really need to talk to your doc asap but if you don't want the ring or the house you need to let you man know right away and he may be hurt but if he truely deeply loves you he will understand and wait til you are ready. You don't need a ring or a new house because you are having a baby. My sons dad tried to give me the same things and it just became to much to handle for me because I was already having trouble dealing with the fact that I was preggers. So talk to him and you doc. I hope this helps.
  • I deal with depression and from experience talk to someone asap, a doc, a therapist, someone...if u think u feel bad now u must know that it can and probably will get much worse. Believe it or not this is very common, so ur not alone. U will b ok.
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