SEX!!!!

lovingmybabygirls11lovingmybabygirls11
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Okay today my baby daddy and I had sex for the first time in a month. He has a gf and I said that I wouldn't have sex with him anymore but I gave in and idk if I should continue. I'm not with anybody but should I still have sex with him if he has a gf? But I really don't like the girl cause she has been keeping away from his daughter cause she don't trust him but she has 2 kids and want him to be around her kids. Idk if I was right or wrong but that's her fault if she wouldn't accuse him of doing something that he hasn't been doing then he would want to have sex with me today. Its a lot to this story but I need advice cause me and him have bee broken up for 5 months and I'm pregnant with his second baby girl. Idk what to do. But the sex was sooooo good and I really needed it but ugh I'm so confused. I need advice should I still be freaking with him or should I stop?

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  • momamarmomamar
    how would you feel if you were his girlfriend? I think that sleeping with a taken guy is just as icky as a taken guy sleeping with someone else..
    guess she has a reason to not trust him!
    you deserve someone who can give you 100% not just come to you when hes horny.
  • JenniieeJenniiee
    Well I honestly think should stop having sex with him if he has a gf .
    Because that's not fair for youu becausee he basically has you like his second one .
    Don't let him do that !
    Show him that your too good for him !
    : )
  • 1_Bubbly_Mommy1_Bubbly_Mommy
    STOP all it's going to do is start drama and stress you out i went thru the same situation with my baby daddy we have been together on and off for 7yrs and he was tryin to be with me and his gf and i didn't like her either so at first i didn't care but with sex comes feelings and i started to feel he shouldn't want her bc she's like this or like that but he wanted to have his cake and eat too and i wasn't having it in the end i said it's either me or her and i guess he doesn't want to be "locked down" right now so it's his loss bc he's actually getting what he wants and yoy giys are just there when he wants you.
  • Jess510Jess510
    Just remember if they do it with you they'll do it to you.
  • Mami_Ika3Mami_Ika3
    Omg she just asked a question thats it no need to judge her since when ppl think they god now like no one makes mistakes & learn from it.... [-(
  • JwigsJwigs
    She asked for advice. People are giving advice. Advice to stop while she is ahead. She obviously already had misgivings. People are supporting that doubt.
  • BkE913BkE913
    I haven't read one comment that has "judged" her. Nobody has personally attacked her or has resorted to name calling, they're opinions and advice that was asked for. Just my two cents.
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  • Mrs_AppleSpicyMrs_AppleSpicy
    Totally agree with you navywife!!!
  • mom60511mom60511
    You probably want to be careful about stds since your pregnant. I don't know if your having unprotected sex or not it's just something to think about.
  • lovingmybabygirls11lovingmybabygirls11
    I understand where everyone is coming from. But it was just the moment in time thing where it just happened you know. I know that I don't have feelings for him anymore so its was no strings attached but at the same time he ismy baby daddy and before we brke up we said no matter who we're with we are still gonna keep seeing each other idk he is a cool person yeah I love him but I just love him as a fuck friend and that's it. I know where y'all are coming from and I've heard it many times from old people but I thought that coming here some of u would understand about the situation. NO SEX FOR 1 MONTH 1/2 things get hot down there andhe was looking freaking fine as hell and it was tempting. And that's her fault my baby daddy isn't the type that wants to be smuthered by any female and that's what she doing and he my rebound just like I'm his. Iknow I asked for advice and you guys gave me what I asked for but I also wondered am I wrong for it? I mean I told the girl once before when she asked if me and my baby daddy were messing around I told her and she continues messing with him like I told her its not gonna stop no matter what. But I know how I am. Hopefully y'all will understand buti do appreciate the advice:)
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  • lovingmybabygirls11lovingmybabygirls11
    Well of course I use protection. I know why I'm not gf and that's cause I put him through to much And He need a break from our relationship and so did I. But if she knows that me and him are still messing around that makes her look stupid
    I don't Want him I Just wanted him for sex and that was it. Idk if I will do it again. But the real reason for it was so I could start dilating and I told him that.
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  • mommysBabygirlmommysBabygirl
    STAY ON THE SAFE SIDE MY LOVE N INVEST ON A DILDO BIG ENOUGH TO HELP U DIALATE N SATISFY YOUR DRIVE (: I DID BUT LUCKILY MY BD N I GOT BACK TOgether engaged! (;
  • lovingmybabygirls11lovingmybabygirls11
    Idk. I'm scared to mess with anyone else and I Can't find a Guy that is real u know. @mommysbabygirl Ive heard about the dildo But I'm not into that I like the real thing where new positions come in. And @mama0811 I know we might end up back together one day in the future but.I don't want him I don't even have feelings like I use to. Its just sex. Iknw I'm wrong but I've only been with him for 3 years no one else so it's hard to pick up and have sex with somebody else
  • ashabashashabash
    I would do the same thing if I didn't like the girlfriend lol only thing is he's prob having sex with her too still and that'd sicken me. Who knows if she has any diseases that he can carry from her to you and harm your baby
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  • bummy87bummy87
    my sister actually has sex with her exhusband all the time n hes with someone else but yeah shes got alot of problems 2 work through n I dont think she sees sex as anything special just an outlet
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I get where you're coming from, I like the real thing better than a toy too, but I agree with the other ladies and I don't think you should have sex with him anymore. Navywife gave you great advice.
    Even if you don't like his girlfriend, you should respect her and treat her like you would want to be treated. Not only does it keep drama to a minimum, but it shows that you're a bigger, mature person and she should respect that. That's what I would do anyway.
    I haven't met my husband's ex wife yet, but when I do, I'm going to be super nice to her. I've met his son and I absolutely adore him. I haven't met his daughter yet, but I already adore her too. I even gave her my iPod touch for Christmas. They all know there's a baby on the way and they're excited. That's my example of how I'm personally keeping things cool in my extended family. Good luck and I hope you work something out :)
  • Mommie_McAteeMommie_McAtee
    What if the girlfriend,is having sex with other guys...guys that may have stds, and she has sex with the baby daddy, then he comes too u. What a love triangle. Honestly what has the girlfrirnd done to you to make you not like her. Or is it just a hattrid because she took ur place. I think u should stop. Karma comes back quicker than u could imagine. and if shes staying wit him after you told her hes obviously making her all kinds of promises thats you are lying or sum. Girl let that go. She may dislike u just as much we dont want yall to end up on snapped cause the baby daddy wanna be greedy.
  • lovingmybabygirls11lovingmybabygirls11
    @mommie_mcatee she just always texts my phone about me and him. He told me the real reason why he stopped coming around and it was because of her. I tried to be nice to her I went to chuck e cheese with her and her kids and she disrespected me by telling him lies and stuff. But I even let her meet our baby girl after she told me her and my baby daddy were broken up. But that's the thing he doesn't lie to me he keeps it 100. And I do the same with him but like I've told everybody else maybe I would get back with him and maybe not idk what the future holds but iknw for sure that nobody would understand him like I do. But I'm not into playing with myself and if she is messing with somebody else that's her and my baby daddys problem not mine I make sure I'm protected and when I wasn't using protection with him I made sure I got tested. So I'm steps ahead on that. I knw y'all might think I'm crazy but idk I just got horny and at the time he was beating around the bush about it and he asked when was the last time I did anything I told him then he asked could he feed his baby and temptation just took over my body and iknew one day I was gonna fall for it but I didn't know today was gonna be the day well yesterday
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