Sex questions, please help... :/

caroline8_pcaroline8_p
edited March 2011 in Second Trimester
I feel soooo bad that I never give it up, and I know it annoys the shit out of him. I am just nooot wanting any kind od sexual anything.. is there anything I can do, eat, drink or something that would help me to want it more? I'm 16.4 wks.

Comments

  • ProudMommie627ProudMommie627
    I found tht wen u do it on ur time, wen ur in the mood for it its more enjoyable. Try oral if u dnt want to make him feel so bad i bet he would appreciate that over nothing
  • Bkc09Bkc09
    I feel ya my poor husband has been on lock down lol im 38weeks and since we found out sex has happened only 3 times and now it hurts so bad im over it lol I lost all intrest in sex I get wore out just thinking about it and all these women talk how horny they got while preggo all I gotta say is must be nice lol good luck !!
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    I'm literally NEVER in the mood, its been almost 2 weeks, and before that once it was 2 weeks. Before that.. I don't remember. I wish I was uber horny! So much for it coming in the 2nd tri! Grr. I just want to be in the mood for him.
  • finallypregnant2finallypregnant2
    edited March 2011
    Maybe even a hand job I know mine appreciates it but he also knows that's all hell get sometimes even a bj makes ne gag sometimes and so on those nights I just don't try I don't want to make him feel bad if I gag again but I also don't want him going elsewhere not saying he would or wouldnt for his needs to be net so a hand job is fine in my opinion good luck girls. ;)
  • newmom2be23newmom2be23
    I am never in the mood either im 22 wks and i think i wanted to maybe once? For me its honestly so painful, like i cant even pee afterwards and sometimes feel like i need an ice pack!! Am i alone here?? Lol.. i did talk to my doc about it, cant do much about it til after the baby is born. But i have yet to hear or meet someone who actually wants it all the time.
  • Bkc09Bkc09
    yeah I feel horrible we went for 4+ months and we tried last week but it hurt so bad that I had to stop which I felt like a lead him on ... hopefully I will go into labor soon and after all is healed I will gets my old
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    Im one who wants it lots but its getting hard to find a position that is comfy for the whole session
  • Bkc09Bkc09
    *get my old sex life backs
  • sweetness06sweetness06
    Crazy thing is the pregnancy got my hormones going crazy lol..I WANT IT ALL THE TIME..even wen I'm so mad at him..like today we both missed work lol but I luv it!
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    Even when I wait two weeks, its pretty tight feeling.. and he isn't into bj's or hand jobs.. he just looooves sex, and I know for a fact he isn't cheating. He has even mostly given up on ever pursuing anything sexual.
  • vmoreno3vmoreno3
    Have u tried watching porn together? I kno a lot of girls dont dig it but it really works for me.
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    I like watching porn a lot, and we do together.. I just haven't wanted to watch it.. maybe if he just magically has it on when I come back from the restroom or something, it could work. . . Just magically you know..
  • 1princess&princeontheway1princess&princeontheway
    Lol...my husband cant keep up with me! I'm horny all the time...@ the ladies who watch porn with their husbands...i want to...but ever since I had my first child ive been soooooo self concious about my body. It makes me soooo depressed. I feel like he will like their bodies more than mine...=(
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    He will never meet them. I do not have a perfect body, and all his exes were skinny. I'm a little chubs, but its mostly toned. Its fun, do it!
  • 1princess&princeontheway1princess&princeontheway
    Idk if im asking TOO much...lol...but what would a couple do while watching porn? Just watch then have sex?
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    Watch... gets your minds going, play around with yourself or your partner.. do it! Lol. If I really like the vid we are watching, ill keep watching it, he likes to watch me.. sorry if to explicit for some people.
  • iemommieiemommie
    I am 7 weeks and need some sex in my life but unfortunately it's against doctors orders for now...but I sell hush products and we have the right tool for the job...it's called the perfect girlfriend...inbox me if u want advice on something to buy your man to keep him sattisfied without having to do the work yourself :-)
  • crachellet7crachellet7
    Yeah I'm so happy I'm one of the lucky ones I always want it. Thankfully I can have it whenever. I'm only 17 weeks will my sex drive die down? =\ sure hope not
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