hubby refuses to tell parents about baby#4

ciceliacicelia
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Ok ladies does this make any sense to anyone but my husband. I'm so frustrated i'm ready to scream. We are in our 30's and have 3 other children and he doesn't want to tell them about this baby. He says its because i am only 10wks and doesn't want to tell them then have to tell them something bad happened if it does. I don’t get it, he's told EVERYONE else, even his manager. It's so frustrating. I am trying hard not to get angry with him, but I just don’t understand his hesitations. We do owe his parents some $, so they may be why he doesn't want to tell them. Who knows?? Any advice from my wonderful pregly pals?

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  • borrowedtimeborrowedtime
    My sh waited weeks and his family found out by other ways (I suspect my sil). He still hasn't told his dad yet....:(
  • borrowedtimeborrowedtime
    ssh=dh
  • Mommy2BeAgainMommy2BeAgain
    My bd is being a jerk about it too. Lol his stupid response is oh when im ready. Ughh I bet he wont tell them till I have another baby in my arms. Idk why men are so complicated. Lol
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  • momof5momof5
    Lol. I had to tell my parents and my husbands parents cause he was to scared to. Seriously we are both grown have good jobs and live in our own house that we bought. I just think its a man thing.
  • ciceliacicelia
    Ell thank goodness i'm not the only one. Not that it makes it ok, but hey comfort in #'s right :) i would tell his parents myself but they don’t speak english (they are japanese). I guess I will have to wait until I am showing at one of our rare dinner get togethers. Him being so secretive makes me feel like the first time we had a baby (they didn't accept me or the baby until she was a year old). The difference in cultures and traditions have always been difficult but I thought we had finally figured things out.
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