Just got married on valentines day but think my hubby is cheatin I'm. Pregnant n got a one year old too I'm scared to think that my happy family might not be real :-( need advice
Might not be the best advise ever but if u have a good friend or someone u trust, I would ask that person to follow him around, us women are really smart we can find out without even trying to find out, unless u really wanna kno I would do that or look thru his phone but always get enough info to make sure if he is or not, think smart n dont stress too much
Las night I found some emails n his ex had already been callin my brother in laws phone well I decided to call asked her if they had seen each other she said yes that they met up at our old apartment n had sex she explained theclothes he was wearin inside n out wat my aprtment had where things were located idk wtf to do :-(
The thing is we moved out already we r livn at his grandpas now I confronted him las night he said that he saw her at a restaraunt coinsidently but had no contact n that the only reason she knows wat the apartment looked like was because of his old friends I dnt belive him I dnt knw wat to do :-(
some Women are evil and will go thru a lot to find out info (ex.color of under clothes) remember like I said some women are smart, and if she wants your man she will make up stories n u will believe her
I mean thats y I stayed. I love him so much we have a son together already n I'm pregnt now n the weird thing is that there is emails frm her but nothin in his outbox idk wat to think
Also, honey, follow your instincts! After being with my ex for 11 & 1/2 years, married for over 7, he began cheating on me with a mutual friend of ours. I confronted him multiple times with stuff I found on his MySpace account & phone records proving they communicated when he was saying that they no longer were. He gave me every excuse in the book, & so did she when I confronted them both face to face. As much as I wanted to save my almost 12 year old relationship, & my heart wanted to be stupid & believe his lies, my instincts were screaming at me not to. A woman always knows - we can FEEL it. We can see it in their eyes or their subtle gestures...in the way their touch seems more distant somehow, & their ever-growing lack of emotion towards us. You deserve a loyal, faithful man! I thought my whole world ended the day I lost my marriage, but 4 years later I'm still here, & he still regrets what he did. I'm with a fun, wonderful man now - he's not perfect, but who is? And I'm 6 months pregnant to him with my first baby. Men can be dogs...take him back to the pound if he can't be good. Cause you deserve the BEST! Hoping everything works out for you. Hugs!!
It sounds like he is the one lien n might b cheating I'm so sorry if he is no woman should go thru that ...he could delete his outbox n history n stuff which is what sux but I mean I kno it must b hard I'm sure u guys have gone thru a lot n u r in love n it will b hard if u split up for u n ur children do what's beat for ur kids or u what u feel n follow what u believe is right
I went through the same thing, but the ex was lying, at first she said the same things ur guys ex is saying. I believed her n it caused a lot of problems, then once when I went outta town with him for 10 fays and sge didn't know she still told me she was with him all those nights She thought only I went outta town, btw So obviously girls can b crazy
Instincts may not be your best bet right now. Pregnacy comes with a lot of insecurity! I dealt with a crazy ex for a long time. She would start all kinds of rumors. She told one of my hubby's brothers he asked her to marry him a month after he purposed to me. I'm not saying he isn't lying I'm just saying don't jumped to conclusions, give him the benefit of the doubt. Just keep your eye out and be careful not to drive an unnecessary wedge between you two. This is a happy time for you two, embrace it and use it to push any thoughts of doubt away!
Maybe he did tell you the truth... Stay positive hunny! I see no smoking gun! :-? Also if he took the time to delete his outgoing he would have deleted the mail from her as well.
Went through 6 years and one child with a cheater! Left 3 years ago and he still denies cheating! I think even if you find them standing there banging the girl they still don't own up to it. Thank God I left. Now engaged to a wonderful man who treats me so much better and minus the cheating! Love blinds us...
well today we tried to not talk about it I let it go. as far as discussin wit him n he said. he will prove to me that he is happy wit wat he has He wants me to drive him everywhere from now on n have his cell. on me all the time
He probably doesn't want you to think he can do any wrong, I'm so sorry for what's going on with you know how it must feel, but it sounds like he's lying....unless this girl is crazy and very stalker-ish she's not gonna spark all these lies up and write him unless she was getting some type of feedback
@MamaQueen thats true. Its that easy to tell the hoes no to call or email him.
Not tryna worry you but guys are sneaky sneaky. I had an ex that had girls sending him raunchy photos and emails and he changed his passwrd soon after I seen those msgs, just dont let him fool you darling. Im sure you have bigger and better things to worry about like baby on the way. I send many hugs your way, be strong and smart ;;)
What did her emails say to him and how did you find them? Do you have his password? Does he know you have his password? Do you have access to other personal things like facebook, his phone, texting, call history things like that.
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then once when I went outta town with him for 10 fays and sge didn't know
she still told me she was with him all those nights
She thought only I went outta town, btw
So obviously girls can b crazy
Not tryna worry you but guys are sneaky sneaky. I had an ex that had girls sending him raunchy photos and emails and he changed his passwrd soon after I seen those msgs, just dont let him fool you darling. Im sure you have bigger and better things to worry about like baby on the way. I send many hugs your way, be strong and smart ;;)