im scared to do this alone

hopeforhealthyhopeforhealthy
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
I only knew this guy for over a month and in that time I found out he was sleeping with one of my co workers which may I add he didn't kno we worked together and her n I didn't kno we were seeing the same guy...so when I found out we both confronted him and all 3of us went our seperate ways until I found out I was pregnant. And he is bein a complete jerk sayin the baby isn't his just becuz he wasn't keepin it in his pants...everyones sayin I gotta be happy and enjoy my pregnancy but I feel guilty for wanting to enjoy something in sucha shitty situation! And this is my first baby and I def didn't want it to happen this way or be doing it alone..I'm really scared

Comments

  • sairasaira
    Don't b scared
    "Your not the first your not the only and your not the last"
    It's better to b single than gave some a.hold around ruining everything I'm a single teen mother of two
  • sairasaira
    Have* a hole*
  • sammiesammie
    Im doing this all on my own also an its my first i definately didnt ever imagine it this way but u know what whatever curves we come across we must learn to swirve an get around them. The road cant be a curve forever.
  • YNVTishYNVTish
    They have early blood test they do to determine paternity. They take the blood strictly from you not the baby.. apparently traces of your babys DNA can be found in your blood during pregnancy. Get the blood test and shut him up... that'll give you some sanity! I can't imagine fussing with him the entire pregnancy.
  • Mommylovesy0uMommylovesy0u
    You don't need him! All u need is the support of ur family and the love for ur child! If ur going to go thru with having this baby knock out all the negetive thinking! You can do this just start parparing now!! How far are you??? How old are you??? And does ur family support u having the baby??? And if all else fails u still have us on the forum lol! Don't stress smile this is a blessing!!!
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    Idk how far along you are or what ur financial situation is, but I have a sister who got pregnant and her boyfriend left. Yes a baby is a blessing at the right point in ur life;however, it can also be a burden. I don't want to upset u but seriously think about wether u will be able to take care of the baby, or get child support out of him. If not for family my sister would never have made it on her own. Again Idk ur personal situation my sisters problems where mainly monetary but she only made about $10 an hour.
    If however it's fear I can tell u I am right there with u. I just found out that I was 7 weeks pregnant and I was not even sure I ever wanted kids. Whatever u decide Good Luck!!!
  • hopeforhealthyhopeforhealthy
    I'm 23 and I'm almost 8 weeks... my family and friends have my back 100%... but I would like him to be there and realize this is his baby... he's 33 and is acting like a child about it...I'm not worried about the money situation I have a good job...
  • hopeforhealthyhopeforhealthy
    @YNVTish... how far along do you have to be in order to get that test?
  • YNVTishYNVTish
    @hopeforhealthy You only have to be 13 weeks. Here is the site you can order your kit from.

    http://www.dnaplus.com/fetal_cell_prenatal_paternity_test.htm

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