You shouldnt think like that unless he gives you a reason to think like that. Or you are going to make up crazy scenarios in your head and drive yourself crazy. Relax and enjoy this pregnancy with him.
I disagree... Dont listen to ur instincts because ur instincts could be wrong and before u know it u pushed a good man away... In my opinion i think u should be a woman and do what woman do START SEARCHING....check his phone, check everything that i feel is wrong and check to see if its right... I would and i do... So stop stressing the baby for the time being lol...
In this case I would have to agree with don't trust your insticts. Women are more emotional thinkers and if you are emotional about it and dwell on the bad its going to cloud your instincts more. Cheating is a hard thing to have "instincts" about. I trust my instincts greatly but never would I trust them in a cheating case. Evidence and keeping a level head are you. You already feel he might be cheating and you don't want to go acusing him and make him mad if he didn't do anything. Dig around and see what you can find.
I've had the same problem; Still do at times and I sometimes wonder what if I'm not attractive to him anymore? Afterall stretchmarks and weight gain doesn't sound so attractive; but I didn't accuse him of cheating even If I wanted to. It just seems like I'd be percieved as an emotional pregnant woman with unreasonable accusations. So instead of accusing him, I asked him if I am truly the only one he's loving like 'this' and he'd always try to reassure me that I am. So one day I logged onto his FB and saw some disturbing messages that 'caused a very big argument for us.. that caused a lot of problems. Sometimes I wish I never snooped around 'cause the truth does hurt ;/
I would check his cell phone if you can. Look for interesting texts BUT don't say anything at first. If you notice a the same number or name that says interesting texts keep an i on it and maybe try to forward them to yr phone so you have all the proof when you finally confront him on yr suspions.
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