partner being horrible.

georgiamumgeorgiamum
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Im sick so haven't been able to eat much the last few days. I am trying but it really hard and im dehydrated too. Instead of being supportive he moans at me and says its my fault if i have a miscarriage because Im not giving the baby what it needs. This is our second child and on the first he was great so i don't know why he's been so horrible now.

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  • EarthMamaEarthMama
    It could be stress....dads feel the stress too but they tend to show it in different ways. Try to ignore him. I know its not easy. As for the sickness, have you tried ginger? I made a pitcher of my favorite ginger cooler and it helped tremendously. Just put a small piece of fresh ginger about the size of the first nub on you thumb into a blender with the juice of 2 lemons (squeeze the juice into the blender as well as the zest of 1 of the lemons - which is basically the skin ), water, and about 1 tablespoon of honey. Blend it together well. Pour into a pitcher and fill the rest of the pitcher with ice. Mix again and drink. Yum. It's good and eases morning sickness 1 2 3. Or if your like me, I had 24 hour sickness along with motion sickness from even walking! Also, EarthMamaAngleBaby.com sells organic pregnancy safe products that work great. I never tried their morning sickness tea because by the time I found out about the site I was past that phase, but everything else I have bought from there has worked wonders and is well worth it. Also, when you eat, try to keep it light and simple like crackers with a little peanutbutter or slice of cheese in it. This phase will hopefully pass soon. Just ad long ad your getting your fluids down you will be fine. I used to go through pitchers if that ginger zest cooler like crazy! Lol. Good luck. Hope this helps.
  • rhondala71rhondala71
    Awwww. Guys can b such jerks sometimes. Hang in there girl.
  • georgiamumgeorgiamum
    Thanks it not morning sickness though i keep getting chest infections and im dehydrated. Feel like my whole body shutting down and he just moans at me for it.
  • finallypregnant2finallypregnant2
    Get some Gatorade it will hydrate you and give you electrolytes, try eating some rice and warm milk
  • tnt2007tnt2007
    I have a red itchy rash from head to toe. My husband yells at me at night for itching and keeping him awake, and laughs when he looks at me. I'm about ready to tear him apart limb by limb.
  • momof5momof5
    I think it is a guy thing. My husband was so wonderful during my first pregnancy and did everything for me. He fixed supper everynight and brought me my food. I was spoiled. Now this is our second and he's more hormonal than I am. I just want to smack the crap out of him. When I'm sick he tells me to suck it up and quit whinning about everything. I am 35 weeks now and I hurt so bad and all he can say is just because you hurt don't mean you have to be rude to us. Omg. I wish men could feel what its like to be pregnant. Lol.
  • georgiamumgeorgiamum
    Thanks guys it good to know Im not alone with this. I don't know what it gatorade is i live in Ireland i presume that's a drink sold in America.
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