Any one have any experience with this? What should I do?
Long story short, My sister and I both got pregnant in December. She was ttc, I was on bc. She told our family at 4 weeks and lost it at 7 weeks. At this point I still had no clue I was pregnant. I mean I was taking bc - didn't even know it was possible. I was with her in the hospital when she had a D & C in the hospital and took care of her after. A few days later I started throwing up and was really sick. I thought it was just a cold/flu bug. A week later my SIL suggested I take a pg test. I did and to my surprise it came out a bfp. Well.... Now she isn't talking to me. She sent me a nasty e-mail saying a lot of hurtful things (every time she sees my baby she would think of hers) and then sent me a voicemail saying she was sorry for the e-mail but she still couldn't face me or participate in anything with me. My whole family is in town this weekend and there will be family dinners.
Should I just show up even though she says she doesn't want to see me? I know she will be there. I know how hard it must be to loose a baby. I was crying when I found out she had a mc even before I knew I was pregnant. I don't think I should have to tip-toe around and not enjoy my pregnancy though. I am so confused as to what the right thing to do here is.
Any suggestions would be much appreciated!
Should I just show up even though she says she doesn't want to see me? I know she will be there. I know how hard it must be to loose a baby. I was crying when I found out she had a mc even before I knew I was pregnant. I don't think I should have to tip-toe around and not enjoy my pregnancy though. I am so confused as to what the right thing to do here is.
Any suggestions would be much appreciated!
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**I have a question for you non-related, how do you post that ticker on here?**
This situations just sucks.. I mean what are the chances something like this happens?
Then if you go to your profile page there is a little setting under your picture that says edit signature. Just paste the code in there and hit save!
on a side note please dont complain about being pregnant to her. Every time she xomplained to me it really upset me. I wanted to scream do you know how lucky you are.
We were so close though it just makes it hard to go through this time without her. I hope we can move on together quickly! Luckily she can start ttc again this month so I am keeping my fingers crossed for her.