Im not a single mom but I feel so alone

3rdoneontheway3rdoneontheway
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
My husband has been very supportive this pregnancy. I just feel so alone. He wants to go out and have fun with his friends which is alright except I have to stay at home with our other two kids. When he does take me out he just wants to go eat never do anything fun. What should I do I don't want to over react and start a fight. I just cant help but feel like he thinks I'm not fun any more. I mean how is it fair either that he goes with friends

Comments

  • carolyntxcarolyntx
    just point it out- suggest getting a sitter and going with! just cause your pregnant doesnt mean u cant go anywhere, just cant drink..
  • EdubsbabyEdubsbaby
    Hey girl, I totally feel you. This is lonely for me as well and I have no other children to get my mind off of my loneliness. My hubby has his friend come over and spend days here and the only thing he does with me is watch tv shows. We don't go out. Have you tried talking to him without accusing him? Like let him know that you would like to do fun things as a family and as a couple. Maybe datenights where u each take turns surprising the other with something cool to do? Take heart girl, women are always more fun than boring ol guys!
  • 3rdoneontheway3rdoneontheway
    Lol thanks and I have suggested going out hes been getting better at it since we got back together. I try going with him but he says its only the guys. When I show up there to pick up the car all the other guys have there gf or wives
  • 3rdoneontheway3rdoneontheway
    It just makes me feel like hes ashamed to be seen with me.
  • proudcastromamaproudcastromama
    Aww I am in the same situation but I have one son about to be three. Like u I don't wanna fight I know he needs time to unwind with his freinds but I did tell him that it was bothering me and that if he could at least dedicate a day for me ... like movie night or miniture golf little things that bring concept u and me and so far so good
  • 3rdoneontheway3rdoneontheway
    its just these damn hormones that makes me over react. I usually step back after the incident and see how wrong I am but by then the damage is done. I was way worse before I've been able to control it more
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