am i overreacting? need opinions pls

clope18clope18
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Okay so I've been with my bf for 4.5yrs now. I didn't know he smoked cigarettes until almost a year later..big turn off for me, but I love him. Since I got pregnant, I have been getting tired of him smoking. I ask him to go outside & he says why should he have to go outside to smoke if he pays all the bills. Before him I was never around cigarettes or cigarette smoke, & now I'm getting tired of smelling like them all the time. & I don't want my kid to be around them. Am I overreacting by thinking about breaking up w/him & leaving? Is it just my hormones? I mean, I'm 15weeks pregnant & I want a healthy, full term pregnancy & I dnt want my baby to be born w/any complications. Pls help. All of your input helps

Comments

  • salsabiasalsabia
    He sounds like a jerk. He needs to be put in his place.
  • Mommie_of_2_BoysMommie_of_2_Boys
    No ur not overreacting my husband smokes weed an I'm seriously thinkin about leavin him bcuz he promised to stop after we had our first son but he didn't so wen I got pregnant again he said he wuld cut bac which to me was a start an I feel lik he is spendin more money now on weed then b4 an he has no job we hav got nthn for the new baby an he plays tht damn xbox all damn day instead of look after our son or lookin for a job uggghhhhhh I dnt blame u if u leav cuz men are such ass holes... sorry I needed to vent lol :)
  • three_cats_n_a_babythree_cats_n_a_baby
    If he cares about your/his baby he wouldnt smoke in the house, it can cause miscarriage and also make the baby be born with asthma which they will have to live with forever, what a selfish tw&t he is! You are not over reacting at all!! gd luck.
  • angie87angie87
    edited March 2011
    My hubby would always smoke infront of me I used to smoke to but haven't smoked for 1 1/2 years but he still does. As soon as he found out I was pregnant he's actually cut back and he Dosent smoke infront of me at all and if one of his friends lights a cigarette infront of me he asks them if they can go smoke somewhere elsa. Ur bf shouldnt smoke in the house its not a big deal to go outside he's just being mean so I dnt blame u for how Ur feeling u. Hope it works out for u on what u decide
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