I need to know if I'm over reacting!!??

NaliiBByNaliiBBy
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
ok! So idk if its juss the hormones or whatever ... Me n mii bf never fight butt were "text" batteling right now!!?? so I drop him o ff @9am to go help this lady move out with his friend.. Their gettn paid for it n stuff which is fine..so now 4:00pm he says their done they all wanna go to panera to go eat.. I was like "ohh ok kool I've never been maybe I can meet u there lemme know okay" (bored at home waiting for him anyways) n I don't get a text back.. So I text 30 min later "this is taking forever" n he says " were going to panera" n I freak out! Like he knows I wanna go too...knowing their probably almost there anyways!!!! Like now I dont wanna go... N were arguein ... I tell him I don't feel welcome I would like to have been asked as his gf(mother of his child) to go not like I'm forcing myself to go.. Bout 10 min later he says " ur welcome to come but were already eating I wanna c u" like wtffff!!! I would look.dumb walking in there. Im juss so irritated n frustrated!!! I don't feel appreciated... The past 3 days I haven't gotten a good niight kiss... I love u... Sex!? Lol nothing!! There's more to it like his friend(wen I dropped him off) was sayin this lady is so fine blaaabla n I'm not a insecure person.. Butt hes out with random who knows who... : / juss makes me mad :( now I'm over here cryin ... Told him to stop talking to me.. We never fiight like this.. Now ?? Is AM I OVER REACTING!!!????

Comments

  • musicangelxoxmusicangelxox
    I think u might be. But that coming from me and i overreact a lot too ever since i got pregnant. Ask my bf. Just relax and try to look at the situation differently. Sometimes guys can do stupid things and they need to be ignored. U wont look stupid if u join them. If u wanna go eat go relax and have a good time. Fighting is never good
  • ashleywiini16ashleywiini16
    Well, I too have been a lot more emotional and irrational and impatient lately. Im 23 weeks, I think those emotions just come with pregnancy lol. Things that I used to be able to put up with or that I could just blow off, I can't seem to anymore! Its like everything makes me angrier then it normally would. SO...with that said, im sure youre a little more upset then you would be normally, but at the same time he does need to respect you and make you feel welcome and loved. You are his babies momma & you should be number 1 to him right now :) just explain to him how he made you feel... be mature and nice(easier said then done I know) and make him feel super crappy about making you feel that way. Its called the guilt trip! That's what I always do!
  • Jensensmommy15Jensensmommy15
    I would be upset too but I over react about everything! Lol but he should have at least asked if he could have brought u something back!
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    I think if u were not prego it would b over reacting. but I think its normal that u feel like this. since u say u never really fight u guys must have a very good relationship. I say talk to him about how u feel unappreciated
  • NaliiBByNaliiBBy
    @musicangelxox @ashleywiini16 thanks loveee! Every thing is good now ! :) we made upp ! Hehe!! He showed up @ mii housee right after me knowing with something for the baby the lady gave him :)) n we talked bout it .. Guess I was over reacting justtttt a lil .. Haha I don't think I would have acted like I did if I wasn't preggo !! :) while we were talking I was reading u guys posts n it made me feel better!! U guus r the bestt! Danggitt I thought these hormonez n weird.emotions would b gone bii now..mayb not : / haha ..
  • NaliiBByNaliiBBy
    @newmomma15 yeahh but mii stubborn butt wouldn't want anything back even if he askedd.. I can b very stubborn sometimes!! Haa ! Thanks
  • NaliiBByNaliiBBy
    @firsttimedaddy I was hoping u would get into mii discussion frm a guys poiint of view!! I see ur posts all over n I like reading them.. Ur gf is a luckkyy girl :) butt anyways. We talked were good now :) n yeaa since we never realy fight makes it ten times harder when we do fight!! N I dnt like fighting wittt himm.. Yea I don't think I would have acted that way if I wasnt preggo !! Sometimes I can get a lil psyco!! Lol im jus superrr attached to him cuzz were mostly always together unless hes @ work so wen he does want to go hang wiry his boys once a week I.cry when he leaves hahaha sadd I.know.. If I wasnt prefgo.i wouldn't!! I'm soo lame.. Lol I juss want this bby here already!! Well thank u! :)
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    lol no problem (:
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