I am 13 wk pregnant and I feel so bad for my.hubby because I have no sexual appetite what.so.ever I want to be able to please him but I am just never in the mood
I'm In the same boat. Ever since my first was born, I lost it. Were on our third now. It wouldn't be so bad but I'm only 23 and I dont wanna be like this forever and my husbands at his peak so its even harder
I was just thinking if this! i feel bad for my husband too...but im actually getting it..hes@ wrk! I know this soubds weird..but sometimes when i stretch i get in the mood ..
Oh ..when i was pregnant w/my son i was all wanting my hunny...thats why when i got pregnant he was looking forward to the sex and im just not n the mood!
Same here before i was preggo sex was great. Im 29weeks & since ive been pregnant im disgusted by it this totally isnt me i was like a nempho with my hubby smh i feel bad at times i want to indulge in it so bad but the tht of the pain frightens me i cant wait till i get my mojo back lol
I have been ylthe same way, but my husband has gotten pretty intelligent. I swear I wont feel like having sex at all. What he has learned he has to rub me down there and it works. Even if im not in the mood, something to do with the hormones and added blood flow uwhen ur pregnant u may not be in the mood but if he gets creative he could even go down on u. You can't tell me that wouldn't get any woman in the mood prego or not lol. But seriously explain to him that ur hormones are out of whack right now and he has to spice u up before now. Make sure u make him aware that it is nothing he is doing wrong and that its not that he doesn't turn u on but that its just all the changes ur bodys going through. Anyhow, what im about to say is going to be pretty INTENSE so if u are sensitive don't read after this..........................................................................................................................................ook my husband and I have an understanding he must get me in the mood now luckily he understands very much how pleasurable and benefical it can be for him. I will have him go down on me and then finger me at the same time until just before I have an orgasim I will pull him off of me....this is very hard to do but it is great because by this time u are wanting him inside u so bad u would do anything to get it in lol anat the same time he is excited because he got u to that point and it makes him feel needed wanted and likevur now in the mood and into him. The greatest part for my Hubby is that when we do this he doesn't have to hold his orgasm off because im ready to cum asap. If for some reason ur Hubby wont go down on u get creative go to the sex store watch some porn together not only will this excite him because ur more frisky but he will feel like u r becoming more into the whole sex thing while pregnant and if he ask what got into u u have the most perfect out...blame it on them hormones girl.....hope this helps because we all need to have an active sex life to make our marrages. It's a known fact that 90% of men and women who cheat so it because they are not getting what thy want in their own bedrooms. So get creative an don't be embarrased whatvwe women may think is nasty to a man it is sooooo exciting. So never be embarrased men are dirty and they like their women to be that way...but only on the bedroom!
It's hard taking ur panties off at first because the thought of sex is disgusting u right now well that's how I feel. Anyway that's the hardest part I promise because after ten seconds or so of him going down on u u will be glad u gave in lol I know I always am! Good luck tonight!
This is very common I totally agree with @my3his1stbay. My last pregnancy I felt like crap then 2nd trimester hit And omg my man was happy. This pregnancy is totally different guess ill loose it at the end. I told my man he better enjoy it now cuz no telling. Some times u have to grin and bear it trust me it starts feeling good after a while. Or let him take care of himself. This is usually Why men will cheat. So grin and bear it ladies I promise its not to bad
Second trimester last pregnancy for me was hilarious! I had went out and got me a dildo and wedged it between the matress and boxspring and went to town doggy on that thing when my man wasn't there I became a NYMPHO in my second trimester
Me either....I'm 7 weeks and we have only had sex twice since I found out that I was pregnant. I just feel so bloated and gross and I don't want my husband touching me at all. Im trying to get past it because I really feel bad for him but Im just disgusted by the thought of it. I was never that way. I'm hoping that it goes away soon.
I've been the same way!!!!! I feel awful for my husband cause I don't wanna do ANYTHING. And then I mope around cause he wants to do his own thing, which makes me feel unattractive and unwanted. Which I *know* is totally irrational and lame, but I just can't seem to help it. Although I will say I had a dream two nights ago that was super HOT and I haven't been able to think of anything else. I'm just entering into my 2nd trimester so I'm HOPING this means my sex drive is back!
in my 3rd tri and still don't like it, uncomfortable for me, bf thinks its the positions so he is looking up new ones I love him, but he don't understand
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i feel bad for my husband too...but im actually getting it..hes@ wrk!
I know this soubds weird..but sometimes when i stretch i get in the mood ..