anyone gone through a still birth?? dont read if u worry easily. :/

waiting4ourRainbowwaiting4ourRainbow
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Me and my husband got pregnant last year in february
my pregnancy was fine but due to a medical malpractice at 35 weeks the baby past away.
i got pregnant in february again and me and my husband are completely beside ourselves with worry. I dont want to stress this baby out but im just so concerned. Plus i dont even have health insurance yet. Help?! :/

Comments

  • jojoIIjojoII
    Look I went through this 4 years ago and I was about 32 weeks, it was very difficult, but don't worry just calm down because your baby feels everything, eat right and for comfort try not to go back to the same practice that treated you the first time, if your a praying woman pray and def. Communicate with ur husband and make sure u have total support.... I am pregnant now 14 weeks, trust me I'm terrified also but now I have a great husband eat right and pray everyday, and I talk to my baby I look right at my stomach and say mommy and daddy loves you and come out healthy trust me the baby understands....be confident and positve and everything will be ok LOVE IS MOST IMPORTANT!
  • anadoll92anadoll92
    Wat do u mean by medical malpractice?
  • waiting4ourRainbowwaiting4ourRainbow
    Someone sounding confident is really nice to hear right now thank u
  • waiting4ourRainbowwaiting4ourRainbow
    The doctor did do anything at my appointments. He didnt check me. I went into labor twice and he never showed up to the hospital 2 days after i returned to his office he just told me to rest sent me home then two days later the baby had passed away and my body started turning septic
  • anadoll92anadoll92
    Oh im sorry :/ keep ur head up dnt give up. And dnt stress baby feels everything and if u feel sumthing is wrong demand them to check u.
  • waiting4ourRainbowwaiting4ourRainbow
    I will thank u
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  • maybabymaybaby
    My husband and i lost our son at 32 weeks last april. I am now 32 weeks with our daughter due in may. Having a baby after a stillbirth is one of the most difficult things to do cause you know getting to 12 weeks diesn't mean everything is okay. You just need to remember that the risk of it happening again is no greater risk of it happening again if there was no genetic reason. Take one day at a time, voice your concerns and remember that you and your husband need to be there for both your children. Dont be afraid to go to the ER or doc whenever you are worried. Thats been what has kept me sane...and a very understanding OB and maternity hospital.
  • maybabymaybaby
    edited March 2011
    @SaylorsMommy; There are many reasons still biryhs may occur. Like waiting it might be due to something the dr did or didn't do, or bub may have a genetic ab.normality, or like in my case, it was a cord accident. No one really knows for sure, but it does happen more often than you think....it's just normally not talked about.
  • jojoIIjojoII
    Yea I had an autopsy done and there were no signs of why my baby died, but u just have to stay positive which is WAY EASIER said than done but yea, everyday I pray for. Very healthy child because this time around I claim life and I will walk out the hospital with my beautiful baby boy or baby girl! Love over all
  • SheronSheron
    @waiting4ourRainbow, my girl died at 25weeks 2 years ago & im freaking out too, Ive changed doc too and so far all is well for this boy.
    Im 22 weeks now, hoping to pass the 25week mark to feel at ease...

    Good luck and God bless!! %%- %%- %%-
  • Tanners_MommyTanners_Mommy
    I lost my son last year on may 12 at 27 weeks but I know what was wrong with him.. Dr said its a rare condition one out of every 10,000 pregnancies is affected but never the less I'm still freakin the heck out and worried something will happen again
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