porn over sex?????

mommajanmommajan
edited March 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
in my second trimester my boyfriend and i made a deal that he could watch his porm one day a week just cuz my sex drive was way low. now im 39 weeks n all i want to do is go at it!, problem is my boyfriend doesnt want to and when i look at his phone theres always a porn ready to go. is this something i should be worried about?

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  • veteranswifeveteranswife
    I would ask him why he doesn't want to? It's stupid to think he could hurt the baby.
  • mommajanmommajan
    i just get that sorry excuse of not wanting to hurt the baby. he can look up porn but not if he can hurt the baby! i just want our sex lives back:'(
  • jonesnajjonesnaj
    my fiance clams he wants to but he never intiates: so in the middle of the night I attack so that I can get some sleep :"> but lately at 33 weeks I feel unwanted and kind of turned off tht he doesnt try . it seems like the only time he tries is when I really dont want to
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    @jonesnaj- I just think most men are like that when they are ready to go they expect u to be too. My guy always wants to be extra touchy feely when I'm nauseaus then when I telll him no he's like see I'm not going to touch u now. Maybe u should set up some foreplay I.e.chocolate fruits or toys or something to give him a hint.lol.
  • jonesnajjonesnaj
    girl u know Ive tried I started playing with my toy and he was watching the game cant believe him. \m/
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  • shmegsshmegs
    I honestly think men get weird towards the end. My hubby and I had some complications starting the 3rd trimester and haven't had sex since. I'm 39 weeks now. Although there are other things we do. And really we all need to be intimate on other levels other than sex right.
  • mommajanmommajan
    thanks ladys :) ive listened to his explanations n still think hes just being scared of nothing lol i guess im gonna have to try the toys?
  • sUgArFooT_4sUgArFooT_4
    My husband is always turned on when im feeling the least attractive n in pain. But when im "off the charts with being horny" he is tired and not in the mood. Good thing is my husband is not into porn. He would rather eat then watch porn,lol.
  • mommajanmommajan
    @sUgArFooT_4 lol lucky you!!!
  • aidensmommy6911aidensmommy6911
    My fiance and i do it every other day or so but lately hes downloaded pictures of naked girls, he claims he just sends them to his friends and i have witnessed the dirty messages they send to each other but im worried if hes looking at that instead of wanting to have sex with me
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