Bd is such a jerk! ladies i need advice please

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• BlessedMommy

  March 2011

  What your babys dad did was wrong he shouldn't have threw his boxers in your face I don't think its time to leave June talking to him letting him know that your feeling unappreciated and y you feel the way you do maybe that will help i hope it does good luck but you shouldn't get treated that way
• txmoorekat

  March 2011

  Doesn't sound like this is a good reason to leave to me. Why does he think that you're so worried about what he's doing?
  
  I would suggest talking with him to remind him of your contributions around the house, and to tell him how much his remark hurts your feelings. Maybe there are some things he wants to say too. Good luck.
• HavingNumber4

  March 2011

  Gurl me n u in the same boat I'm 8wks3days he talk bout u act like u 8mths pregnant he really urks me Cuz he said he see other pregnant gurls working n all that I cook clean look for jobs n all that next time he complain I'm a tell him straight up go b with them than word
• clope18

  March 2011

  @zexy4da011 ugh I feel like telling him the same thing & he tries to make me think that I need him & no other guy is gonna want me cuz I'm pregnant. Little does he know I DON'T need his ass, or any other man that thinks like that
  
  @Twin_Angels I do spit game back at him bit he gets mad & says he doesn't deserve to be treated that way just bcuz he pays all the bills. He thinks he can be that way towards me, but I can't be like that toward him
• HavingNumber4

  March 2011

  Omg gurl he say the same thing n when I try to talk to him he gets loud n wants to argue then makes it seem like that's all I do now is argue sad part he gets physical bad physical
• HavingNumber4

  March 2011

  But now I'm pregnant he fought me once but its always when people is around other than that he tries to act alk sweet n stuff but I clare I think he schizophrenic
• clope18

  March 2011

  @zexy4da011 ugh that's how mine is, he wants to start yelling & everything. He's used to having girlfriends that do everything he says, when he says & don't question him. But I wasn't raised that way, he can't boss me around like a dog.lol. but girl when u say physical...he doesn't hit u right?
• newmommyofone

  March 2011

  Those sound like classic signs of an abuser.. if he hasn't hit u yet, keep ur eyes open. I feel for u. I have had my share of abusive men. They continually put u down and lower ur self esteem and even make u think ur crazy for even wondering why he does what he does. They make it seem like its ur fault and that u dnt know how to act. I'm sorry and I pray everything goes ok but u should leave now. Its better now rather than when ur 7 or 8 months along and dnt have to many ther options for living. Better now and make him learn something sooner than later.
• VictoriaB

  March 2011

  I agree with @newmommyofone. He sounds like he could get nastier. I'd just keep my guard up. My last bf constantly told me I was fat or I didn't work as hard as he did. I worked at a crappy fast food job for minimum 5 or 6 days a week, once even two weeks without a day off and he'd only work for a few hours 2 or 3 times a week but he was making more per hour. He was a jerk and didn't deserve me.
• newmommyofone

  March 2011

  We as women take way to much.. we need to not settle and not take so much crap. Deep in our minds we dnt think someone else wud want us cuz we r pregnant or cuz we have kids or for whatever reason but if someone truly loves u they wouldn't want to see u hurt at all. They wouldn't say the things they say. I never understood what love felt if it weren't for my fiance now. We have went thru hell and back jus to stay together. Point is. If u have to question if its time to leave, then its time to leave. Forreal girl.