MY partn er just lost her job and now she just picked up all her stuff and left her cell and she told me she was just holding me down. Im 19 six weeks pregnant and alone.
Maybe she just needs to calm down and deal with the issues she has. Not fair to you tho If she knows your alone. My cousin had a baby with her gf then the gf changed her mind. She's a terrific single mom!
Are you working at all? You should be able to sign up for some govt programs at the very least to help you stabilize financially. Do you have any way of contacting her?? Sounds kind of random for her to up and leave like that after yall obviously made a choice to be parents together. Is there anything major that happened that would have made her do this? How has her family reacted to yall getting married and having a baby together? If her family is putting pressure on her for it she could still make the choice to come back. Sorry, just know you have the love and support of us here
YEa I work for verizon so im ok financially shes had jobs on and ogf and she finally found a job that was stable and they fired her today idk the details but she is very proud and has always want ed to be the provider but I dont mind.
That's good u have a job, and if she is hurting she might just need time to calm down about losing her job. She obviously cares about you if she was feeling down about not being the provider. Give it a few days and see what happens, try not to panic! Stay positive and just know that no matter what happens you are going to have a wonderful child to love you :-)
I bet she will come to her senses and come back. It sounds like a lot has happened to her especially today and she needs time to feel better about herself. Good luck hun.
@missydre Ugh! I'm sure she'll realize that's not what she wants. You guys have been through a lot together I'm sure she will come back and is most likely being too hard on herself after getting laid off and being unable to provide for you. If You have taken an oath to be together and have decided to have a baby together... that is some major dedication. Sadly... she's being stupid. LOL I'm sure its super hard feeling this way and dealing with this while pregnant but hang in there! Maybe trying to take another approach would help? Calming down and communicating how you feel and how much you love her maybe? Sometimes we need that. Sometimes its hard for me to do that! Hahaha anyways I sure hope it all works out for you guys. love is love and runs deep... don't let her go that easily!
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finally found a job that was stable and they fired her today idk the details but she is very proud and has always want ed to be the provider but I dont mind.