am I wrong for not wanting to name my child after my hubbys deseased brother?

riveraloveriveralove
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
My hubby wants to give our babys middle name ( if its a boy) his diseased brothers name... I wouldnt mind but I hate his name.

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  • MommyofoneMommyofone
    It would be very meaningful but if the name isnt your preference then I can understand. Maybe have two middle names?
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  • riveraloveriveralove
    Thats always an option...
  • riveraloveriveralove
    Ruben or Carlos... my deseased brother in laws name is Ruben Carlos Rivera... I know we r mexican but dang I didnt want such a traditional name that EVERY mexican has!!
  • ammasmamaammasmama
    My husband wanted to name a boy after his miscarried brother Jarred. My mom asked him how that would effect his mom, and if he really wanted to name him after somebody deceased.
  • riveraloveriveralove
    So what ws the outcome?
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  • new_mommy9_21new_mommy9_21
    edited March 2011
    . .my bd wanted to name our child if its a boy after his bro tht got murdered last yr... I said no bcuz I dnt lik d name! ! its Benjamin. and I did nt want him thinkn of my child as a replacement of his deceased brother. (play brother at tht, honestly his cousin)
  • riveraloveriveralove
    I know it would mean alot to my hubby. But still on the fence about it.
  • ammasmamaammasmama
    @riveralove we are on girl number 3, but he changed his mind. If we would have had a boy it would have been Jacob Wyatt
  • abby5abby5
    I like ruben over carlos...we are using mu bf moms name who has passed...stephine and I don't like it at all but it mean a lot to him so I will do it
  • laura536laura536
    I would use it for a middle name for sure. Its not like you use a middle name often and it would make your husband happy.
  • bettybetty
    My deceased twin bro name was Jose... So my.fam wanted me to name my bby with middle name Joselynn since it has Jose.in it. I said NO!! I love my bro sooomuch, but that name iz a NO, NO!!
  • preggieswithnumber6preggieswithnumber6
    My first sons name is Gary, that was my father name who I lost to cancer when I was 17.
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