in 8 hrs...

IttybittyIttybitty
edited March 2011 in Second Trimester
I will see my baby for the first time and hopefully see what im having. BUT the daddy is not going because my mom is and they dont get along. I want them both there and he is trying to make me pick. I am not doing it and never should have been put in this position too. im not breaking her heart and telling her she cant after I told her she could. he should suck it up and go. I cant even be excited about it because he is being such a jerk :(

Comments

  • mysticmystic
    Sorry! Its not about your mother or your hubby its about the baby! The both need to put there big kid pants on and deal with there issues later! Best of luck to you.
  • lovingmyunbornlovingmyunborn
    Awwww sweetie thats a horrible position to be in....hope he comes
    ...does your mom know hes not coming because of her? What does she think...would she go even if he went?
  • happygrasmick32happygrasmick32
    His loss! He will regret that he couldnt put things aside to see his baby. He needs to build a bridge and get over it for his babys sake!!! You on the other hand will get to share a beautiful moment with your mom! Enjoy :)
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @mystic my mom has put her feelings aside and said she wouldnt mind being around him, its just him. thanks for the luck :)
    @lovingmyunborn yes she knows he isnt coming because she is and she said she would step aside if he was going to be like that but Im not going to tell her she cant just because of what he wants. I feel like if i give in and do what he wants then he'll make me pick between them all the time and I dont think its right.. it hurts that he isnt coming but I guess there is nothing I can do
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @happygrasmick22 thats exactly how I feel. he says by me not picking one than im choosing her over him. im not choosing anybody. he can still come.
  • intriintri
    Dats right it his loss..my baby daddy too and my family don't get along..so now I'm with my family..coz he don't care about this baby but I do and my fam..specially my parents..its our first baby and first grandchild of the family :)
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @intri its his his loss but it sucks that he is being such a jerk about it.. its my first baby, his 4th and probably my moms last grandbaby cuz I dont want anymore. I keep hoping he'll change his mind by the morning but I know im just getting my hopes up
  • intriintri
    Well we all just hope for the best..goodluck girl ;)
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @intri thanks alot
  • mysticmystic
    @ittybitty did you find out what ur having? 8->
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @mystic its a girl :) she was being a brat and wouldnt stay still.
  • mysticmystic
    @ittybitty congrats ;-)
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @mystic thanks bunches
  • adri805adri805
    CONGRats
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @adri805 thanks bunches
  • adri805adri805
    Ur welcome
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