Trying to not kill my hubby...vent sorry

mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
edited March 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
So, I am exhausted. Have 3 school age kids and a home daycare with 6 kids ranging in ages 17mos to 5years. I do most all of tbe housework and have 2 dogs that are driving me crazy. My husband is being a lazy butt who I have to ask a million times to do anything. I am so irritable, that you would think he would be walking on eggshells. I had a buttload of laundry and housework to catch up on yesterday and he couldn't even fold one load. He played on facebook most of the day, went to work for >6 hours, came home and played on fb till 1:15. He put his work clothes in the hamper in our room, which the smell of made me so nauseus that I moved to the coach. Then he just got upset cause I said the britney spears concert on gma was inappropriate for my daycare kiddos to be watching. I think he really wants a black eye!!! (sorry so long and I usually dont complain aboit him, its just been a long week and its only tuesday!)

Comments

  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    Me also! Trying not to kill fiance.... gggrrrr....
  • firsttimemomctfirsttimemomct
    I dont have any other kids but we have 2 large dogs 3 cats 3 kotens and a baby goat we have to bottle feed in the house(long story) i cant even get bd to put clothes in a basket. His clothes end up on the living room floor. He has slept on the couch since the day i got pregnant. He wont even help feed the animals or clean anythinin the house. The worst part is HE DOESNT WORK!!!! And sleepa till 4 pm. Ahh i feel better
  • mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
    @firsttimemomct oh my gosh...how do you handle that? I would of already been on the 10o clock news!!! My husband in all fsirness usually works 45 hours a week, but is lazy when it comes to the kids or housework! It drives me nuts!!!
  • veteranswifeveteranswife
    I think once they notice you do everything for them they just stop to think we need help. Kinds seems to be a man illness
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    Agreed @veteranswife
  • mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
    I have tried going on strike, but I swear my family would live in a pig sty...and I am ocd about germs and a clean house...so the strike hurts me worse than them.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    I don't have alot over trouble with my husband, but when he starts acting up I donut wash his cloths. Makes him mad when he figures out he has to wear dirty socks and undies.Lol it gets him back on track. Also make them feed themselves for a few days kids in all. Unless u have one to young for that then u feed that one. Its an eye opener.
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    @mommyo3soon2b4 u should have decked him a good one (: @firsttimemomct boy needs to get a job. u should deck him one too lol @veteranswife yea alot of guys can b like that. I work full time. I come home. im tired. but taking care of the house is a ful time job too n add pregnancy to that. its harsh that some men won't help. I try to help out w whatever I can when im off or just at home after work
  • cinnaboncinnabon
    My husband has been independent from his early teens into adulthood. Always made his own money, started his career and business by 19, bought a home by 20, and never wanted a wife (I've known him since childhood) cuz he was "independent." The day we get married, he suddenly can no longer make his own lunch!!! If I don't pack it, he won't eat! He won't open bills, won't even look at laundry...he's totally 100% dependant on me and I'm about to scream!! So while he was sleeping the other day (as the house was in disarray) I painted his toenails a pretty pink and put flowers on the big toe. Then I did his lips in a lovely shade of red and put barrettes in his hair. To top it off I took lots of pictures!! When he woke up, I told him none of this woulda occurred if he was AWAKE HELPING OUT!!! My house was spotless when I got in later, kids fed and asleep, and I got a warm oil massage :)
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    @cinnabon thats so hilarious. n im glad it worked for u (:
  • mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
    Cinnabon...oh my gosh! I laughed so hard!!! Please tell me some of those pics made it to facebook?
  • cinnaboncinnabon
    well...it WAS on my mind to hit instant upload, but overall my hubby is a doll and very mild tempered and just didn't deserve to take it that far :D he just needed a wake up call!
  • mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
    Even though I am angry with mine right now, he is a super great guy. He is the first one to tell me to get rest that my body is tired from baking our lil bun...and hes a great daddy...just lazy! At least when it comes to housework;-)
Sign In or Register to comment.

© Vanilla Keystone Theme 2024