scared to have sex

edited January 2011 in Pregnant
Am 10 weeks and am scared to have sex. I dnt want nothing to happen to my baby. I know its ok to have sex but I just worries. Does anyone feel the same way I do?

Comments

  • Don't be scared nothing will happen to ur baby. U can have sex but if it hurts when u have sex u need to stop and tell ur man he can't be rough.
  • Yea I'm scared to have sex to my bf had been wanting to but I told him lets wait you'll we go to our first appointment to see what the doctor says
  • @baby4ontheway thanx will keep that in mind

    @collegemammatobe yeah my bf has been asking to we have already last week but I just get worried but I know it will all be ok as long as he Dosent get crazy lol
  • @collegemommatobe just as long as it doesn't hurt you when you do it you are fine and he can't be rough with you its actually good to do while pg because the baby likes the movement it calms them
  • @angie87 yeah he can't fling u around like a rag doll. Lol
  • @baby4ontheway wowI didn't know that about how the baby likes it lol but yea I'm just scared and I want to enjoy it instead of worrying about miscarrying
  • @angie87 yea idk I'm just scared im going to miscarry
  • I masturbated and then started bleeding and hour later with my last miscarriage..no orgasms for me until I KNOW it is ok.
  • @collegemommatobe the only way you would have a miscarriage is if ur body knows there is something wrong with the baby. How far are you and have u had a miscarriage before?
  • @baby4ontheway yeah lol. I didn't know that actually very interesting.

    @collegemammatobe yeah that's the scary part but it will be fine.

    @cutedame sorry for Ur lost
  • Hun enjoy it :) its healthy for both u and baby unless a Dr says otherwise :) it strengthens ur vaginal walls for an easier delivery and faster recovery. And most of the time the rocking during sex actually lulls the baby to sleep. Plus it eases stress. If it hurts or u start bleeding stop and call ur Dr. Hope this eases ur mind. And late in pregnancy it can help induce labor :)
  • @kinsman thanx for info. Gonna try in a bit cuz I also been craving it too lol
  • Hehe just have fun and relax. Just watch for bleeding and or pain. Take ur time and enjoy the fact that ur man is attracted to u :)
  • All is well lol :)
  • I was scared as well..and at 16wks after we were done, I bled...I rushed to the er and they told me baby was fine but my cervix was short and not to have sex,workout or lift heavy things. I had an ultrasound the next week and the er was wrong..my cervix is not short! I'm relieved but I'm still nervous and I'm going on 6 months
  • Glad u had fun angie87. See nothing to worry about unless u bleed or have pain. I have no sex drive and its killing my hubby :( gotta give in soon tho and keep us both happy lol.
  • @Heather1115 wow glad everything is ok

    @Kingsmama I bet its . Am sure eventually u guys will lol
  • @angie 87 I'm almost 8 weeks and no I haven't but I'm just scared
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