Venting as well

prettiekittie31prettiekittie31
edited March 2011 in Third Trimester
I am married to a very very inconsiderate man. He does not understand how much it means to me that since this is out last child that I want the last 2 weeks of my pregnancy to be special. We talked almost all day yesterday trying to work out our differences. In the end, he gets upset because I ask him to make something for our girls to eat, and says , I have to figure out what to make for these girls after you've done brow beat me all day". WTH! I thought we were having a meaningful conversationg about our marriage. That really hurt my feelings. So i made my girls a bowl of cereal, and left to go for a walk. AT 10pm! I ended up going next door to get some tacos, mind you I left, without the car, in the dark and he did not even care. When I got back I guess he figured out that he was being mean so he starts asking me if i need anything. I didnt respond. so he's like ....so your not talking to me? and i say ...No im not. SO NOW he wants to try, and I am not receptive to it. I am so angry. I have put up with so much in our marriage, I feel like i deserve so much more than what I am getting. For now on i am going to depend on just me and god to get what I need. One day things will either change for the better or god will bring me someone who will appreciate me for what I am truly worth. Really had to get that off of my chest...im feeling a little better now>

Comments

  • momx3momx3
    I'm sorry you're going through that =( and being pregnant doesn't help at all! Was he like this with ur other children? Men don't seem to understand that our hormones and emotions are all over the place and anything that seems a no biggie to them might be a big biggie to us. He should be more considerate and help u relax since u'll be real busy real soon. Best of luck and I do hope u work out ur differences, if he's still the same after ur baby is born, then u need to think about what ur going to do about it
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    u definitely deserve better
  • ammasmamaammasmama
    My hubby's the same. They almost kept me at the hospital yesterday for preterm labor, but I convinced her that I would go home and relax and call if contractions were more than 6 an hour. I get home and tell him, and tells me to take it easy, then asks what's for dinner. So after everything I make speghetti why he's outside doing whatever. He could have offered to buy something or help me make it. We have 2 little girls 2 and 1, so relaxing is hard to begin with, but he doesn't help AT ALL!!!
  • prettiekittie31prettiekittie31
    @ ammasmama, wow, i dont know how it is these men expect us to do everything, my hubby see's im exausted, and when i told him we were having leftovers for dinner he got an attitude. I feel like im doing more now on maternity leave than I would be if i'd of stayed at work. I still get up every morning at 4am to make his coffee and pack his lunch and take him to work, come home and then get up 2 hours later to get my oldest ready for school. then i run errands all day. I need a day of peace and quite. What can you do though. If you yell, and argue you just end up feeling more crappy. Hang in there, hopefully once we all give birth and our bodies return to normal, things will be much better.
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