Seems like we don't have sex anymore think he's afraid to hurt the baby. I want it so bad but he seems uninterested even if I bring it up ..am I alone in this
@kia777 definitely not! Seems the same way with my hubby lately...I actually woke up the other night n caught him watching porn (tmi) but it really hurt my feelings....it made me feel like after bearing four (almost five) of his children I am no longer good enough for him....maybe it is just my hormones getting the best of me....I mean masturbation is normal and healthy, so y am I feeling so freaked out by it?
Omg same with me wat bugs me out is I am here you got the real thing u would rather watch porn...I know its crazy but he couldn't get enough of me before the baby now I gotta throw hint ..he be like later and don't do it ..it's hurtful@sramos26
@kia777 my hubby makes up excuses like u were sleeping and I didn't want to wake u up...but when I am up n want it, he is never in the mood...I just feel like I can't win for losing!
@sramos26 even worst I told my bf I don't wanna have sex no more he said ok wtf wat Guy agrees to that ...its makes me so angry I just get my vibrator and call it a day.he doesn't even pay me any attention if I use it in front of him...
My poor man tries all the time. But I am far from wanting sex. I have this horrible rash on my breasts, stomach, and lower abdomen stretching just barely onto my legs that itches like hell unless I keep it coated in creams and ointment (thank you, pityriasis rosea!). I'm constipated, gasy and bloated. My hips are killing me. And I'm hairy (short showers to try to limit irritation to the rash). I feel about as far from sexy as you can get. I might be getting a little emotional thinking about it.
@kia777 oh my, that is ridiculous...I am so tired of these men thinking that they have the right to b hormonal...ugh so frustrating. @jwigs awwww well I guess that just goes to show that we can b just as hormonal as they r....lol
I'm in the same exact situation. I keep asking him and he says yeah later and I get nothin. Or he makes excuses like I did want to but you were doin something ect. We've had sex once since we found out which was a couple days shy of 4 weeks ago...I'm goin nuts!
@jwigs I'm pretty sure he wont mind ..sometimes I get alil yuck about my stretch marks omg my Bobbies are like big balloons I got major stretch marks all over but freak it I'm one sexy pregnant person lol @sramos26 wish we could trade places for a week or two lol
@redhead25 I'm losing my mind also its going on a month not even a touch nothing I get worried like he goes by his friend I wonder if he's cheating smh bad I know but I just don't know wats up
Oooohhhh guys can b jerks....I started a rampage this morning and kept it going all day...my hubby finally caved, I think I made him feel bad...so far I have gotten a back rub and snacks n bed! Hopefully I might get lucky tonight....here's to hoping *crossing fingers*....
From the start of our relationship he thought he was gonna want it more than me cause he 8 years younger, he found out real quick it was the oppisite! With every pregnancy he doesn't want to do it the last month for fear of hurting the baby. The last pregnancy I got a note from my dr saying it was ok, too bad my water broke the next day! So this time I have figured it out that if I really want it I just wake him up be it 2am 3am....in a very pleasant way that he just can't say no!
Lol @ammasmama that's a good idea I will try that why didn't I think of that lol..my boyfriend was scared to made my doctor tell him even got brochures
At about 14wks I bled after sex and it must have scared the heck outta my bf cuz now...he doesn't ever wanna do it...if he does..he won't go all the way in..and its not as good lol...he says he doesn't wanna "put me in the hospital" joking around...but I think he is truly scared...and I'm 30wks now
@mommyy2Be shouldn't be a problem he seems to want it just as much as u girl @Mommy_of_two your one of the lucky ones lol @heatherlynn girl my bf is scared to nothing like that happened but when he does it I feel it in my tummy he be saying omg I'm poking my baby he probably like daddy plz ur poking my eyes lol he's to crazy but I think he is scared also
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@jwigs awwww well I guess that just goes to show that we can b just as hormonal as they r....lol