help I think I'm lossing it

pinkie4pinkie4
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
I'm an emotional wreck! It's a long story so plz bare with me. I'm 26 and pregnant with my 5th child. I met my husband when I was 16 and got married and had our 1st son at 18. My husband is 11 years older than me its not something we both planned as far as ages go he looked younger and I looked older and we finally figured out it was to late. Needless to say I've never had a great relationship with my mother and would do anything to get out her house I succeeded but never thought years later I would be an emotional wreck. I love my husband but I don't know if I'm in love with him, I mean he does everything for me but the little things bother me. It seems like every few years he's laid off and were struggling I worry about our children's future I'm tired of living hand to mouth. But is this apart of marriage how do u know if your at the end am I tripping. Life is too short to be unhappy but then again I don't wanna destroy our kids life with a divorce

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    You'll know its the end when one of you guys pass away. But that's just my personal opinion on marriage. I think its just your hormones so you shouldn't do anything until you are sure.

    And if you don't like living mouth to hand I really wouldn't just up and leave with five kids. But good luck and I hope things get better.
  • prayin4aBOYprayin4aBOY
    When I was pregnant with my first daughter before I found out I left my husband because I thought my emotions were that I didn't love him. We were only split up a week! Now were on our second child and I'm struggling as well financially. I get nervous about my children's future but I also know that I'd rather have my family then riches. Its probably just your hormones! Just think Would you rather be struggling by yourself or with your family.
  • Mami_Ika3Mami_Ika3
    I think its cause of the pregnancy cause I be feeling the same I'm have my third with my husband I'm 26yrs old been with him since I was 14yrs old. Ugh I been losted too he is great with me but idk sometimes :-S :/
  • Dmjones66Dmjones66
    I'm 25 and have been with my husband since 10 grade and married since 18. I have felt like that sometimes and talked to him about exactly what it was making me feel like I didn't or couldn't live him anymore. It seems to go in a cycle. I would just wait it out. My husband has been laid off now for six months And financially its tight... which causes sooo much extra stress... but all in all I wouldn't want to be without him. No matter how irritating he can be lol. Marriage can be some hard work... but if you want to be happy with him... then you will be: )
  • veteranswifeveteranswife
    I would say its your hormones but you should know how it feels to be in love with him. My husband has ptsd due an Iraq deployment and it never bothered me that much until now. It's not easy to keep. Job latly the economy is bad everywhere
  • pinkie4pinkie4
    Thank you so much ladies it has to be my hormones. I don't remember going thru so many emotional feelings with my 4 sons, but every pregnancy is different. I just feel drained I'll be 11 weeks Thursday, I'm hoping my bundle of joy takes it easy on ne this week. I know I really don't want to be sepreated or divorced because we both be believe once your married that's it no divorce. He's a great husband couldn't ask for anything better. Today is a lil better than yesterday especially to know that I'm not lossing it or the only one who has multiple emotions thanks again ladies!!!!
  • Jess510Jess510
    I agree sounds like hormones
  • momof22bemomof22be
    edited April 2011
    Don't do anything drastic my friend just left her hubby big mistake she's so sad
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