its been over a yEar n nothing!

ValVal
edited April 2011 in Trying to conceive
HEllo girls im new tO this but it seems cool. Anyway ive been ttc for over a year alteady n nothing! Its actually been over 4 yrs no birthcontrol bf always finishing in me n nothing im loosing hope

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Have you talked to your doctor hun? They can run tests and put you on a light dose of fertility meds, usually clomid. :) I would speak to your obgyn about this. Best of luck and lots of sticky baby dust your way!
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Try not thinking about it, it can become a sort of chore and you start stressing over it, have you got the my days app? after a month of using that (and not thinking about becoming pregnant) i found out i was, also if it is that long maybe go docs and get tests done could be something really simple. sending lots of baby dust your way hoping your time comes soon welcome to pregly btw :) x
  • BeardreamsBeardreams
    That sucks. Tried on and off for four years with two of my ex bf's. First time trying with my current one and we conceived. Dont give up hope. Have you ever tracked your basal (waking) body temperature? I did that along with sex every day multiple times and it worked perfect. Even let me know the exact day we made our little bundle of joy
  • ValVal
    THanx girls. Yes body temp..fertile days everything! I kno I can conceive I have a son had him real young. Things didnt work out w his dad n I. Now im in a stable relationship he wants kids n so do I..n nothing. I think I teally stress out wayyy too much on it tho
  • BeardreamsBeardreams
    Maybe its not you... Has he ever had kids or been tested?
  • ValVal
    YEa he has a 7 year old. eithEr way hes getting tested in a week.
  • Maranda3Maranda3
    Don't stress over it hun. Same thing happened to me, almost exactly. My hubby and I got married and started trying right away. I had a miscarriage 4 months after our wedding then nothing for 4 years, then boom! We had twins, no fertility meds or anything, happened 2 months after I gave up. I had decided in april if I wasn't pregnant by, my bday (july) then no biggie: we'd adopt. Got my bfp in may :) good luck and baby dust!
  • NylasMommyNylasMommy
    My husband n I tried for five yrs n were finally having a baby. It was frustrating
  • caitiecakescaitiecakes
    We tried for two years for our second..the minute I quit trying and decided to focus on my career I got pregnant...
  • ValVal
    =) I still have hope than yay* I kno friends keep telling not to focuss on ttc anymore n I guess its true. Its nOthing more than disappoinments every month
  • loveleebbyloveleebby
    Don't get frustrated @val me and my husband have been trying on and off since 2002 and absolutely nothing all these years... once we stop making a serious conscious effort boom I'm 11wks as of today I know how it can make you feel trust me, it might be a good idea to see a fertility doc just to see if there is anything they can do to help you along, best of luck :)
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