sometimes I want to

m2beNOV14m2beNOV14
edited April 2011 in First Trimester
Sometimes I'm excited then other times I'm feeling like I'm not ready to stop my life and have a baby.. will be 8 weeks and now I'm just worried if me and my bf will work out or if it will be too much stress.. then people say it will be fine.. I don't know if I'm just scared but we both said for me to get an abortion because I'm there all woried..but I can't.. there's not a solution and he doesn't have one either.. he's accepting it but not ready.. was an accident.. I just don't know if anyone else has an up and down feeling like me.. I feel horrible feeling like this but I'm wondering if it will be completely diff. Once its in front of me.. and I won't regret it.. thanks for reading!

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  • BabyComingSoon143BabyComingSoon143
    @m2bNOV14 first of all... congrats!!! Many women cannot get pregnant so you are blessed! :) well I'm going to be 23 on may 12 and my bf is 21. when I found out Dec 9 that I was 6 weeks pregnant, of course it was a shock!!! We both have no jobs and were scared yet excited. I don't blame you for being scared and nervous. This is my first but abortion wasn't an option for me. I was told I probably couldnt have kids so this was a real mind blower to me. I live with my parents and they are willing to help me any way they can. Idk how your financial situation is but I posted an add on Craigslist. It's free and you can put that you're expecting and if anyone has any maternity or baby items theyd like to donate, to pls email you. Girl I am getting a bassinet, clothes, bottles etc. I know it won't always be easy but God is the giver of life and He blessed us with this baby just like He blessed you. He will provide. Now I'm 22 weeks 2 days and due Aug 5 with my beautiful baby girl named Jemma Grace. I just wanted to share my story. My family and boyfriend are super excited. My profile pic is of Jemma at 18 weeks 5 days and her face is beautiful (I'm partial I guess ;) )
    Please keep me updated. If you wanna preg buddy, I'm here. :) >:D<
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    We all have up and down days. I got pregnant on pupose both times, and with the first I was absolutely terrified, even though I am married & it was intentional. But I would not trade my little girl for anything in the world, even on bad days. I really feel like I never truly "lived" until I became a mom. This time around, I am nothing but excited. :)
    It is absolutely worth it in every possible way. <3
  • 4senough4senough
    Shoot, honey, this is my fourth, and an accident, I was on birth control. My hubby and I had the same discussion when we found out. I couldn't have an abortion, and he couldn't give it up for adoption. Im 28 weeks now, almost done, not excited about baby, just want it to be over. I have been detatched from the pregnancy, don't have any strong feelings for baby yet. VERY different from my other pregnancies. I feel guilty because I don't have a connection with her, but I know the hormones will start flowing during delivery, and I am going to breastfeed, so that will help me bond with her.I know it wont be easy, but I know it will be ok someday.
  • m2beNOV14m2beNOV14
    Thanks everyone!
  • m2beNOV14m2beNOV14
    It's just really hard.. and I'm just a ball of nerves
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