Divorce

pinkbaby5842pinkbaby5842
edited April 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
he's cheated so many times, gave me an std when I was pregnant. Lied about literally everything. When is it ok for me to move on? I'm 21 weeks and 3 days. I can't take it any more, army guys are more messed up than I thought.

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  • texasbeauty2787texasbeauty2787
    Do what you think is best. If u r leaning more towards leaving id say do it asap and when ud be able to support u and ur baby on ur own. I doubt u want to bring ur baby into this world with u being unhappy babys can sense it. Goodluck...
  • MamaCMamaC
    I'm sorry this has happened to you. It's up to you to decide what's best for you and your baby. Being an army wife, I can understand the desire to stay because you'd be giving up a lot of benefits if you leave. But, you don't deserve to be unhappy. Do what's best for you.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    Sorry! Divorce sucks!! Did u try counseling? We did once but our marriage still ended.
  • kritten_octoberbbykritten_octoberbby
    He doesnt sound like he is very responsible.. hell only get worse..do whats best for you both and not him. You and baby are most important
  • Mami_Ika3Mami_Ika3
    Do wat ever makes you HAPPY! Good luck!
  • pinkbaby5842pinkbaby5842
    Thanks ladies! I'm back in Az and hes not but he won't leave me alone. Not quite sure how to handle it. We tried counseling, he doesn't think he needs help. I'm still continuing counseling tho for other issues as well as going through the divorce proceedings. I left him 4 months ago, when can I start seeing someone else who actually treats me right? When is it still too soon?
  • expectingbabynumber3expectingbabynumber3
    Hey Pink am sry you are goin through this.if u r not happy leave n focus on ur baby first love will find its way to u.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    Took me a year to want to move forward, had many offers for dates but said nah. My only oopsie is getting preggers less than a month of dating my first..rebound..i guess he wasn't really a rebound but u know what I'm sayin..lol
  • pinkbaby5842pinkbaby5842
    @Jamie77 lol well everything happens for a reason right?

    Thank u everyone else its much appreciated.
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