just broke down long but rlly just need someone to tlk to

edited April 2011 in Pregnant
I feel as tho I have nothing left , all I'm living for is for dis child and I hate feeling like I'm doing a horrible job, I dnt even feel pregnant my bd doesn't help and anytime I feel as tho he's done something wrong he flips on me like I'm crazy he's always done dis..my friends have all dissapeared, my family just doesn't undertstand and just automatically go to break up with him and I'm left with no one to tlk to, no where to go and I'm just trying to hold myself together and be strong for dis baby idk what to do anymore. I'm trying to do da best I can but I'm not so sure dats good enough

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  • edited April 2011
    I am sorry you feel this way. I hope things get better for you soon, I have felt really down too at times. Good luck girl
  • Its gonna b okay don't let ppl stress u out think about the joy u hold inside u
  • I went through the same thing all you need is encouraging words I could tell u some stories my husband is pretty Good now but we've been together for eight years if u ever need to talk just message my page and I will answer even if it's just to tell me what happened just message me
  • You hang in there sweety I know there is alot of moms like you that are scared of being alone but remember this a women needs to learn to be independent before relying on a man and thats what I had to do and now I have the most amazing man in my life. You have one of gods greatest gifts inside you that will love you no matter what
  • N if n the end all u have is the baby than that the best thing everits a gift that god gives us smile
  • That is all your baby asks is for you to do is your best. Relax your baby needs,you to stay calm and relax. You do what's right by your child and you. I am here if you need to vent. :)
  • I went through the same thing during my first pregnancy. My bd told me he wished we would both die and moved across the country, my friends were still into the bar scene, and my family was so against me having a child they wouldn't talk to me. I was all alone. So I would go to the store and look at baby stuff, listen to music and go to random bookstores. It wasn't the best time I ever had, but it gave me time to just be me before my life changed. I believe it made me a stronger person and a better mom. Things will get better, I promise. And you are not alone.
  • edited April 2011
    Hang in there things always change,try to keep positive and thrive for betterness everyday!Find things that make you happy and focus on those! If there's negitive things holding you down get away from them your brand new life is coming! !!
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