Scared

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• MomOfThree

  January 2011

  I know how you feel my husband and I were in the same boat, he eventually came around and is sweet not as sweet ad I wish but a lot nicer than he was with our first.
  That's why this site is here, to help each other you're not alone, he'll come around. Good luck.
  
• Máthair

  January 2011

  Money problems always make things seem worse then they are. You are both stressed out. Talk to him about possibly getting on wic (I'm assuming your in the united states) or another type of assistance for food or bills. Don't feel like you are taking a handout, this is why the programs are there. Make sure you guys are talking and listening to eachothers' fears and thoughts.
• barbie

  January 2011

  The only problem with getting wic or anything else is that he makes too much money. Well, that's what they say anyway
• Máthair

  February 2011

  I understand, they tried to pull that on me when I was living on my own with my son and working full-time and part time with no help from the father.
  
  Try again now that you are pregnant they might allow you this time. If they decline you again ask if there is anyone else who might be able to help you, any where else you can go.
• MomOfThree

  February 2011

  @barbie if he does not have you on insurance or even if he does, try to apply for medical card, I have to see a lot of Dr's with my pregnancy even when me & my husband work, he has insurance on me, and we qualified to get one, it wouldn't hurt to try, if you get accepted for a medical card you are automatically granted wic at least you are here in ky. Hope this helps. Good luck!
• Soon2bmommieof3

  February 2011

  thays life and he needs to understand u all were doing the deed shit happens in this case a baby which is a god send Ihope he changes.for u but fact is that marriages break up no matter whats going on and it sucks but u will be ok with him or without him