BD lying??

my bd and I split up around the time I got pregnant in october for some girl who told him she was pregnant too and she ended up having a miscarriage (which I find ironic because she spread rumors saying I was faking preg). I thought she was lying but apparently it was all true but that don't matter to me...i left him cause he cheated multiple times the two and a half years we were together. Eventually he saw the true side of her (so he says) and we started talking about a month ago. Hes been telling me he wants to be there for me n the baby and he loves me n wants us to be together n have a little family. I told him if he wants that hell have to earn my trust back cause my baby is more important and not worth the drama or stress. He agreed n said he was done with the partying n lust for girls n was going to get a job n get on his feet to help me. Well he spent a week with me took me to get an u/s n found out we were having a girl :) he seemed so happy and was rubbing my belly feeling her kick s and we had no problems until I tagged him in the u/s photos via facebook n found out people were asking (especially females) why some girl was tagging him in u/s pics n he responded with "idk" WTF! I confronted him about it but it didn't clarify why he said that. Plus I found out hes still talking to his ex n when I asked he said he didn't want drama so he befriended her after she apologized to him. Idk what to think....

Comments

  • I go by the motto 'Once a cheater always a cheater.' Kick his butt to the curb. You don't need that stress.
  • Let your baby be your first concern, don't let him stress you out. If he wants to be there for you during and after your pregnancy, let him but don't let him play with your heart, you sound like a strong lil tough one, don't let him brake you :) take it day by day and notice his actions
  • I agree with @hurstk28 ! He's sounds like a liar and a cheater and people like that never change. I had a lot of male friends that used to be like that and I know the games they play. Don't waste ur time on him when. U can go and find someone much better for u and will love ur daughter as well!
  • I agree with the ladies above. Ur baby is more important than he will ever be. It doesn't seem like this guy is changing. Its not good to keep on going back and forth with him. The only thing ur really doing is breaking ur own heart every time he lets u down. I wish u the best
  • Scumbag! That's what he is Ooooo makes me so mad! U need to kick him out your life for good. It's his baby well I wouldn't even give the same last name. My friend is goin through this her story is longer tho. Take his butt for child support and make him pay! Guys like tht need balls clipped lol I'm sorry sweet heart u deserve better and will find better. I don't think so I know so. He will get his just wait.
  • @Pookalali
    It's called "woman's intuition"; every woman has it ;-) Some women are more in touch with it than others... You have to trust your gut, nine times out of ten it is correct. On the same token, you are pregnant; so be careful not to let the pregnancy hormones (yours or anyone else's) get the best of you.
    By no means should you allow your BD (or anyone else, for that matter) stress you or that Beautiful Gift O:) you are carrying.
    Fact: Your baby/fetus is well aware of the stress you (expectant mother) are expirencing; and the stress negatively affects your baby (health/mental development). If you are stressed your baby is also uneasy/irritated.

    Best of luck (*)
  • Thank you everyone :) I had told him the deal and of course he tried making me look like the bad person saying im controlling him and he wants to have fun before he has to stop and be a dad which ticked me off so I hung up and ate some grapes :( I don't understand how he could tell me he realized what he lost then turn around and do the same things just to flirt with girls. He told me he wanted to be with only me and nearly cried then tells me he doesn't have to be with me :/ I hope he realizes he lost a faithful, loving girl over lust AGAIN
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