Homeless Pregnant Teen (vent)

LeahsMommyLeahsMommy
edited April 2011 in Teen moms
I feel so lost. I'm not even allowed to head back and pick up my belongings. At times like these I wonder why I even bother with life; my last month of pregnancy and I'm taking it to the streets because someone else was PMSing. Start the bashing, nothing can make my life worse at this moment.

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  • GabrielalecocoGabrielalecoco
    Where you from??
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    Nobody shud bash or judge u but make u feel better....... is there a shelter or a friend or.family member house u can go to for the night ?
  • desertrosedesertrose
    Im so sorry hun that's horrible! Please get in touch with a shelter or church no one should go without food and shelter especially a pregnant woman my heart is breaking for you! There better not be any bashing
  • mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
    Praying for you...please get in touch with an area shelter or church. Someone will be able to help you.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    I was 17 when my aunt kicked me out for having sex with my now ex husband. It was winter and I stayed @ his gramas house. Then got my own place. I think they have a covenant house near you. Please call the local welfare agency they will help you! My sister went to jobcorp now she has her own apt @18. They can't take your baby bc your homeless they want you to b safe. Please call.
  • LeahsMommyLeahsMommy
    I was having a conversation with my aunt and she just snapped, and she said something to my grandparents and mother, the last thing she said no one wants me there. My mother has schizophrenia and my grandparents are easily to manipulate, whatever she said to them is one part of a story, and they just take her side. According to her I'm not welcomed back and I'm not even in state. I'm out of state right now visiting my babys father and this is what happens to me.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    (((hugs))) will u stay with him?? I wld try to get your belongings another day. Let your aunt cool a bit, then call her to ask. Sometimes saying sorry even tho you know your not wrong, works best.
  • LeahsMommyLeahsMommy
    @Jaime77 I wish my family did work that way.. they don't though, I've said nothing wrong, I even said I love you take care I'll see you around and she said, 'I hope not,' and when I asked for guidance through my pregnancy she said she didn't wanna be anything in it, and to leave her alone.. this all happened today and out of no where.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    Is she suffering what your mom has? She sounds cruel!! I hope you find a better home environment. They have so many different agencies. Grab the phone book, you can also stay closer to your boyfriend.
  • LeahsMommyLeahsMommy
    I feel so pathetic, I've never felt this way before. I don't know if she does,my mother isn't cruel to me when she's on her meds, I think my aunt said something and added a few things that never was said to make my mom wonder. I'd call my mother and talk but she blocked me from calls after she told me I'm not allowed to pick up any of my belongings including baby supplies at the house.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    YOU ARE NOT PATHETIC! got that! Your a teen girl who needs her mom! Idk why your aunt/ family's doing this but you can be a great mommy to your child. Establish a place to stay then you can call local police and ask for escort to the house to get your/ baby's belongings. Don't be afraid of them. Stay strong hun!!
  • LeahsMommyLeahsMommy
    Idk if I have any fight left in me, I already told her too that I'll have the cops escort me and while I get my things and she just laughed and said there's nothing of mines there so it makes me wonder what she's done with my stuff, and if she took my baby things out of their box and is using it for herself.
  • ash1laash1la
    That's really unfortunate, that your own family would treat you like that. What is their reasoning on them not giving you your belongings? Maybe you could call the police to get your items, they can't hold your items for hostage....
  • ash1laash1la
    Ok. I see you answered my question....despite her threats I would still have the cops escort you there and atleast attempt to get some of your belongings. Good luck and God Bless.
  • camommycamommy
    I'm so sorry sweetie. Jamie and ash are right they can't hold your stuff. I have a neice who went through the same type of thing her mom tried to keep her from getting her stuff but the cops went with her and made them give her her things. If for some reason u can't get your stuff they are just things and can be replace (long story but I know from exp I just lost a 3 bed house worth of stuff) what's importand ia you keep you and your baby safe. You're stronger than you think and feel you can make it good luck
  • LeahsMommyLeahsMommy
    Thank you everyone for your support, I'll try my best to stay positive.
  • saysaysaysay
    Call the police and they will escort you to get your stuff. My husband is a police officer and has done it for teens before.
  • madilynn37madilynn37
    What state r u in? Do u have some place to go tonight?
  • Angel452Angel452
    I feel for you. When I was pregnant my moms boyfriend kicked me out of their house n my mom didnt say anything she just let it happen. So the next day I took my bd over there to get my stuff but I made sure my mom n her boyfriend werrnt there. So I got all my shyt n left. I stayed wit my bd n after I had my son his mom kicked us out cuz shes a drunk biotch. I want the best for u. N u can turn this around n do the best for u n ur unborn. just keep your head up cuz karma will bite them in their asses.
  • expectingbabynumber3expectingbabynumber3
    Am sry u r goin through this can ur boyfriends mom take u in for a while until u get our own. Call shelters the state someone should help u find a place BC ur pregnant n the baby is coming out soon good luck n keep us posted.
  • CeliaAgnesCeliaAgnes
    Wait, how old are you doll? Some of what you're saying may be illegal depending on your age. I mean, some of what fam is saying/doing.. Id definitely contact police.
  • pooh22pooh22
    Ok @leahsmom dnt feel bad ur not the only one I'm 22 n got kicked out althou I do absolutly everything myself I mean pay bills food clothes n knowing how far u are I no u dnt feel like fighting cuz ur so far along but u might jus have to get messy if she did anything with ur thing sue them big time or jus her ur young but ain't do anything wrong if I'm reading right n she did this while ur out of state she was planning this wich is wrong of her still have the police excort u cuz if she didn't do anythin wit ur things yet she can clam u abandoned them but if u have a police report u got proof that u didn't but either way u must go back u need clothes n so does that baby good luck hunn
  • blondie93blondie93
    Ivee been in yurr situationn of beingg on the streets. Theree is always summ helpp out theree. Yurr familyy will regret wat theree doinn later. But for noww uu gotta focus on ur babys healthh. Uu havee to makee suree uu eat sumthingg ndd that uu takee ur pills mamas. Ur almost theree ndd oncee uu havee ur bbu things will get better. (: uu need to go to a churchh or shelter they will also helpp in gettinn uu bbu supplies andd clothes. If uu dnt havee a carseat by the timee uu go into labor the hospital shouldd providee onee for the mean timee. Ur nt alonee sweetiee.
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