my BD left me because i want to keep the baby
I found out I was pregnant in late feb. When I told him he said we would talk about it and he basically decied that he wanted to get a abortion... I didn't. I have had one in the past and I just can't do it again... we kept going back and forth each week with something different one week he wouldn't bring it up and the next it was a huge deal... he says he isn't ready for more kids... (he has two by two differnt girls) but anyways last night he had called me and actually we talked like adults for once...he said he loved me and wanted to be with me but I wasn't doing what he wanted so basically he told me he doesn't wanna F*** with me if I keep the baby....I really knew we weren't going to be together but he said it in the meanest way possible....then basically said call me when u have the baby.... now I feel that he dosent even deserve to be in my childs life... and now me and my ex are gettin back togther (he is where my heart is) and he fully accepts the fact that I am pregnant and even said he wants to name the baby....I swear I hope my baby doesn't look anything like my BD that way I don't have to be reminded of him and on top of that he's ugly...lol
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But on another note believe it or not, I'm going through the exact same thing, from him wanting you to abort, to him having another kid, to your ex being very supportive. All I can say is time, God, &nd a good support group/fam heals all. Don't worry about him ..Only thing you should worry about right now is yourself, your unborn child, & making sure he or she is healthy. I'm doing the same as of now. Just thought I'd let you know you're not alone & it does get better.
Good LUCK with your pregnancy Mommie!